Got a troubled mind? Vent here. (within rules, of course!)

[MaryMouse]

Yeah, I have a troubled mind. Venting is new to me ,so here goes. My problem is family as well. My mother tonight as in an hour ago had us over for snacks. No matter how i have told her or how many times she seems not to get the fact....I DONT WANT TO BE IN THE SAME ROOM WITH MY BROTHER. I dont want to talk to him or hang out with him or put up with him even for an hour. He has made my entire life awful. (could use a stronger wordhere, but wont.) I cant go into details but it is a real horror story, and I have had enough.
Life is short and I have lost so much time. I love my DH and DD, and we have such a good life and family. I am to the point if she pulls her sneaky crap, inviting us over, and not telling us he will be there, just to get us all in the same room, I am going to write her off. My poor family, having to put up with that, again. I am seriously thinking about taking an ad out in the local newspaper informing her my family dose not want to be around your boy. Knock it off allready.

 

[llrumsey]

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I can understand that completely, and I suppose that if you asked her if he was going to be there she would lie and say no.

Hold to your guns, life is way to short to have to put up with that poop.

 

[Razadia]

My vent would take way too long, so here's a question instead. Why is it that all of my "friends" will sit there and tell me that I'm there best friend and then turn around and ditch me when I try to make plans to do something. Come on, they know how much I hate New Years Eve/Day. I've never had a good one and when I try to pull everyone together I find out they made other plans right out from under me!

ETA: I'm so depressed over this I've been crying for hours.

 

[Mattemma]

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I would invite mom over to your place.That way if she brings your brother you could just say," You are not welcome bro.Please go." Mom could come in or leave.

 

[Mattemma]

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I hope you ended up having a good time. I don't know why people do such things. I would be direct with friends,and let them know if they continue to treat you poorly you will have no choice but to move on.

 

[Mattemma]

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Glad to read you are able to get some help with this. Foolish people are those who say you must tolerate the behaviors of others simply because they are *family*. Our time alive is so short,and to spend it with people who make us unhappy is not a wise choice. Make a good life for yourself,and let the others choose their misery.

 

[indi]

I have a roo who crows every morning BUT I live in a urban area and if my neighbours complain he will have to go. And his girlfriend (they've been together since we hatched them and hate being apart) I don't want him to go. O the has to I am gonna see I canyons on BYC (in England where I am) will take him in, I don't trust anyone else. I don't want him to go.

 

[Royd]

ray's two cents :

Moochie: pigeon kickers suck.

I totally agree! Makes me want to yell out every time I'm feeding the pigeons and some kid runs through the crowd, scaring them all a way. I like watching kids who feed them and are nice to the poor things though.

As for ranting... I haven't got much of that to do at this present time.

Only thing I can say is - don't you just hate suppressed opinions? I honestly can't say what I think half the time, because my opinions would be seen as a "strange" way of thinking. So instead I say what society expects me to say. I go along with the whole facade, when I hardly believe in any of it at all.

Saying what's really on your mind will get you banned. How would I know?....Those who are wild and free only get mentioned in history books.​

 

[newfoundland]

No rants but to all who are bereaved, have ill health or family/social problems, I send my warmest wishes that they may enjoy a happier 2012!!

 

[MaryMouse]

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I can understand that completely, and I suppose that if you asked her if he was going to be there she would lie and say no.

Hold to your guns, life is way to short to have to put up with that poop.

Yeah , thats exactly what she did thats what made me so mad. I know how to fix it, DHs idea, just never go to her house again. Whatever the occasion. From now on we are busy. 2012 is goung to be a better year, because I am making it that way. Thankyou guys for your support, it really means alot. And this ranting thing is great too. I have always just held it all in.