Granny's gone and done it again

We have offered that. Sadly, he has the money to buy the car he wants, but it would wipe him out. Hubs and I think he needs to be on the road to independence, have the ability to support himself, even if he's still living at home. Him supporting a money pit of a car will make him more dependent on us. But then again, it might be the spark that ignites his flame and gets him out into the world. We are torn for sure.
Im afraid I dont understand . sorry
 
If I am reading this right you want him to make his own decisions AS long as they are the ones you think best ? :gig
In a way, yes. We want him to be responsible and capable for what he would be taking on.
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Robert got back SS when they cut him off at 18 yrs. It was a lot of money to us. Different thing all together though. IF we have more then $1,500.00 in the bank we lose medicaid right ? So of course they know he received back pay and had a month to spend it. Same thing w/ me and the car wreck. He bought a tv, his first computer, clothes and still had 7 grand. He hired amish to build that storage shed back there. A total waste of money. A day dont go by I dont regret that but it is what it is.
 

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