Granny's gone and done it again

depression is hard this time of year. Family far away, losing your dog. It may not feel like its Christs Birthday but sometimes I force myself to be happy. I know that sounds dumb but after a while it helps. I read happy stuff. Jokes ect.. Surround yourself with love and happiness. Then go volunteer somewhere people need help. adopt someone from an angel tree.
Thanks granny, I have more than enough to do. Had a friend want me to help her this morning. I said I would but all I felt was resentment. I have been at a dog show for 4 days, two of them without m6 husband to help. I am far behind on all my chores and getting ready for the holidays.
Then I went to the dr who said I had allergic bronchitis brought on by the smoke from the fire. He put me on pred for five days. My husband says there is no such thing. He think he just said that because I told him my symptoms happened after the smoke got so bad here. Then I find out he took his two sons to lunch for the ones bday but he didn’t invite me. Then I go visit m grand kids. I told you what happened there . I was glad that I wasn’t sick with something I could give them. So I went to see them. Just a crappy day.
 
Hubby and i have a deal. He puts the tree up, i trim it, he takes it down. How can you feel festive if you don't decorate or do traditional holiday activities?
I dont know. I never do one because I usually have a living room full of pups. Plus the dogs just mess with it. I have a tiny house.and no garage.
 
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I need to go soak in the tub. Have a great rest tonight everyone, talk to you tomorrow.
H20, just be really glad you are not in a situation like Mrs Misty. I know the holidays can be hard, and losing a dog is awful. Try to help yourself be happy. Do things you enjoy. Buy yourself flowers. You deserve it. Hugs
I really am not that upset about the dog, I miss her but I had her 14 plus years. She was always in good health. I have 7 other dogs here that need my attention.
 
I understand Julie, him taking his sons and not asking you, not helping you at the show, Was he the one that put your dog down ?
Oh no i was certainly on board. She had had a terrible night. She could get up and couldn’t walk when we got her up. She couldn’t drink water anymore and hadn’t eaten for five days. Before that she had barely eaten much but every other day. She was just wasted away.
 
Thanks granny, I have more than enough to do. Had a friend want me to help her this morning. I said I would but all I felt was resentment. I have been at a dog show for 4 days, two of them without m6 husband to help. I am far behind on all my chores and getting ready for the holidays.
Then I went to the dr who said I had allergic bronchitis brought on by the smoke from the fire. He put me on pred for five days. My husband says there is no such thing. He think he just said that because I told him my symptoms happened after the smoke got so bad here. Then I find out he took his two sons to lunch for the ones bday but he didn’t invite me. Then I go visit m grand kids. I told you what happened there . I was glad that I wasn’t sick with something I could give them. So I went to see them. Just a crappy day.
i didn't know your husband was a doctor. :hmm You must be feeling pretty unloved. :hugs
I am having the same problem with my lungs and coughing... still. Just the little bit of smoke that comes with getting the fire going is causing irritation.
 
Just maybe, It upset him more ? Maybe he needs a break and is trying to cope with it ? Because the alternative is that he is an askhat and that would be hard to believe after you have been w/ him for so long. Ask him why he didnt invite you. It will make you feel better
 

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