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That dont make a bit of sense to me Kelly. Get your butt up and make them get in the kitchen and do the dishes. Dont ask, tell. Then fix yourself some food even if its just a sandwich. They learn by example not do as I say and they dont need to starve themselves when their mad. Food should never be a punishment or a reward. It leads to many eating disorders. I know this from experience. As far as your DH , well their just bigger children .If I cook for me I have to clean up their mess before I can cook. So it is a double edge sword. I know they have been eating as the sink is still full of dirty dishes. Just tired of the bs from them and from Bob cause he doesn't live here but 3 or 4 days a month so he doesn't clean. Can you figure where they get the I don't have to do anything but eat and take up space from?
So if I go to the ER or morgue Bob gets to deal with them.