Granny's gone and done it again

[Granny Hatchet]

His. Especially when it escalates like that. Maybe try to have a talk with him in a few minutes.

I did, he denies any wrong doing.

 

[campingshaws]

His. Especially when it escalates like that. Maybe try to have a talk with him in a few minutes.

I did, he denies any wrong doing. 

We're working teaching "compassion" and "empathy" with bubba. If it doesn't hurt him, he doesn't want to apologize. :/ it's frustrating.

 

[Granny Hatchet]

I cant begin to imagine what this guy has been though . What he has been allowed to get away with. In his old life women had no use for anything. No say in anything. Its a power struggle . He will stop any wrong doing when Robert comes out. He is afraid and respectful of him.

 

[Leave a LightOn]

Hey everybody.

Sorry to be abrupt, but please include Whites {Ken) in your prayers. We missed him for 2 days and then this:


2/5/17 at 2:39pm

• kwhites634
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• Location: Right here; north-central MD
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Okay, y'all ....hang onto your seats.

With all the sickness & injuries running loose around here, I got jealous. I',m one of ya now

Saw a cardiologist last week 'cause, I'd been having some minor twinges in the chest. No pain; more a reminder that something was looking for attention.
He set me up for a cardio catheritization. That never happened; the valve is 99% blocked. I was transported to another hospital; a one in DC.
Open heart surgery scheduled 1st thing Monday

From what I hear, I'm in for a long, hard road ahead in the near future. Stick with me, friends; this might be pretty hairy?


I was in and out all day and just saw this myself.

 

[Granny Hatchet]

Thank you for letting me know.

 

[Leave a LightOn]

@granny hatchet I woke up early this morning and spent I don't know how long trying to figure out your cool new Thomas Kinkade thingy. The only thing I found out for sure was the name of the painting on it "Simpler Times Are Better Times" You probably already knew that LOL I like it!



If I had it I would probably put potpourri in it cuz candles scare me.

I like your new chicks, too. I've never had Wyandottes.

Sorry about CB.

 

[Granny Hatchet]

No I didnt know that. How sweet of you to help look. Thank you. I love his work and its not often you run up on something you can actually afford.

 

[Wishing4Wings]

Wishing, are you north or south? I made friends with lots of Cali folk. One was at camp wrightwood near L.A. I'm trying to find some of the other camps now.

Edit: other is northeast of San Diego. Next time I'll search out the northern folk.

I'm up north of San Francisco. Northern Bay Area.

I feel horrible. I got into it with CB. Since it was nice out I asked him to fill all the waterers including the rubber ones for warm weather because its warm. He knew I wasnt coming out because I hurt too bad. Went anyway only to find he did the 2 3 1/2 gal. and thats it. I had asked him did you do the one gallons too? Yup, did them. What a lier. I get out there and the turkey is out running around. The barn was locked up so he had no intention of putting her back. Where the turkey was there was also rocks from the barn. Makes me think he was throwing them at it. No one had food including the babies in the barn. or water. I was pizzed to say the least. I was yelling and he started yelling at me right back. I didnt know, I thought I did, it looked like they had water (remember he picked them up and they were full) I told him to get out there and do his job . he screamed back. top of his lungs. So I said, get out of here. No kid is going to talk to me like that. He refused to leave , just kept screaming and now crying. So I physical removed him. No games no computer . I feel like he needs more punishment then this and I am still mad.

I went through this with #2, about the forgetfulness & lack of follow through (not defiance). In fact, we just had a talk about it on Friday because he left the lid off the storage can and a bunch of feed got wet. We talked about being dependable and that the animals suffer when he forgets. We talked about him coming up with a method he can use do double check himself on his tasks, having some sort of mental checklist. He gets very defensive when I tell him he forgot something because he honestly thinks he does everything and isn't really lying so much as doesn't have his head in the game. This has been an ongoing problem for him for years. He is like an absent minded professor, his head is so full of his own thoughts, it's kind of like he doesn't live in the real world sometimes. Not sure what to do about it, but we keep working at it. I would make his life extremely uncomfortable if he ever yelled at me in anger.

I cant begin to imagine what this guy has been though . What he has been allowed to get away with. In his old life women had no use for anything. No say in anything. Its a power struggle . He will stop any wrong doing when Robert comes out. He is afraid and respectful of him.

He is fearful of Robert, but is he really respectful? You have to start talking to him in terms of being an honorable person and what that means. Too bad Robert can't do it because it might be better coming from a man. CB has a lot to learn and much to unlearn. Sounds like a long road, and a counselor might be of help. I think he has a good heart, but a lot of bad habits.

 

[Granny Hatchet]

Hi Wishing, I asked him if he has a counselor at school. He said they do. I will push for him to see her/him. He isnt just forgetting, he is lying about it too. He remembers letting the turkey out but forgot to put her back? I dont let them free range. Claims he was throwing rocks at the coop.

 

[Wishing4Wings]

Hey everybody.

Sorry to be abrupt, but please include Whites {Ken) in your prayers. We missed him for 2 days and then this:


2/5/17 at 2:39pm

• kwhites634
• 
• Father Time
• 

• Location: Right here; north-central MD

​

Okay, y'all ....hang onto your seats.

With all the sickness & injuries running loose around here, I got jealous. I',m one of ya now

Saw a cardiologist last week 'cause, I'd been having some minor twinges in the chest. No pain; more a reminder that something was looking for attention.
He set me up for a cardio catheritization. That never happened; the valve is 99% blocked. I was transported to another hospital; a one in DC.
Open heart surgery scheduled 1st thing Monday

From what I hear, I'm in for a long, hard road ahead in the near future. Stick with me, friends; this might be pretty hairy?


I was in and out all day and just saw this myself.

Thank you for letting us know about this. In some ways, this is good news because they caught the problem before he had a heart attack. His heart is not damaged and will be stronger for the surgery. This really has been a terrible few months for health problems on this thread. I hope he recovers quickly.