Granny's gone and done it again

got my phone taken away for three weeks, didn't get the chance to give a heads up.

some of my closest friends didn't even notice. I logged back In and not a single person had sent me a message

just, sad. I talk to those people every day, I leave for three straight weeks, and nobody checks in on me? .. just. sigh.

I
I will go on a limb here and say I'm notorious for this. Sometimes I'll figure life got busy or distractions or so on...(doesn't help that I also disappear for weeks at a time...)
 
Just realizing how insignificant I am in some peoples lives, but I am so involved in their lives. they simply don't care if I message them or not.
When I was your age, it was much more difficult to communicate with friends. One telephone attached to the wall in the kitchen was it. You had no privacy and the time when you were actually together, face to face, was never wasted... full of important things to talk about before the bus came.

Today, it's so much easier to communicate, like right now we are across the country talking with others! It's amazing! The problem is that sometimes easy things are taken for granted. And sometimes it's hard to really understand what someone is trying to say when you can't see their face. True friends won't take you for granted. And true friends will be forgiving and understand that communicating in this format makes it easy to misinterpret things.
 
I'm just going to tell myself they are busy and move on.
My son just did the same thing to his friends. They laughed at him and he stopped going on. been about a month now. Im sure they wonder where he went . They had been friends for 7 yrs.
 
got my phone taken away for three weeks, didn't get the chance to give a heads up.

some of my closest friends didn't even notice. I logged back In and not a single person had sent me a message

just, sad. I talk to those people every day, I leave for three straight weeks, and nobody checks in on me? .. just. sigh.

I
That is very unthoughtful of them. Sorry but so many people are so self centered. Just be the best that you can be. You will attract the right people.
 
I will go on a limb here and say I'm notorious for this. Sometimes I'll figure life got busy or distractions or so on...(doesn't help that I also disappear for weeks at a time...)

yeah, But I'm not. I'm here every day, I don't often get in trouble ( my grades just slipped ) , its very unlike me to just *poof*

but yeah, I'm sure they just got busy, or they thought I was busy.
 
I'm just going to tell myself they are busy and move on.
Yes, my husband will text someone and they don’t answer right away and he comments on it. I tell him, they are busy. But they should answer within 24 hrs. When they took the phone away could you use the computer?
 

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