Granny's gone and done it again

[Granny Hatchet]

Ok gals. Gotta run out on you. Need to check my babies out in the coop. Fingers crossed that they are good. Then it's chore time & yard work, sun is shining. Have a great day everyone

 

[ChickenLady2014]

It's called confidence & acceptance of one's self. I have it as well, if I can give you a small piece of advice Heny, it would be to seek some help to get through that. Otherwise you will just end up as an old fart like me with a love/hate complex. I don't know who the person/persons in your life are that have created this low self-esteem & this self-doubt you have, but I think your a pretty amazing person. Get some counseling of something hun, life is too short. You don't want to be standing in front of a mirror in your later years & still be seeing the same reflection of yourself that you loathed years before

it a long list of people and things that I can list privately but not publicly. Most people assume I have super confidence seeing I can handle public speaking and playing "diplomat" for 4H, they never see the other side of me around here simply because one crack of weakness they attack like a pack of dogs. I been called "fat" by a person before because I wasn't in painted on jeans, and while parents don't think it effected me it has in a way. I am also going for counseling but swapping people due to not feeling fully comfortable.

Good for you hun, find that someone that your comfortable with. Wish I could have done that many years ago. Just remember, we think you are pretty awesome

 

[ChickenLady2014]

back at ya

 

[miss heny]

Good for you hun, find that someone that your comfortable with. Wish I could have done that many years ago. Just remember, we think you are pretty awesome

I hope I do too.

 

[h2oratt]

lol I'm a game hen here XD been in too many fights to be tender

Your a bantam game hen, lol

 

[h2oratt]

Trying to figure out how I am going to detangle this amish pup. He dont like anything electrical  Even the mixer drives him wild. I can imagine coming after him with clippers. 

It's all about training but you are going to need help.

 

[Granny Hatchet]

another baby today white and fluffy muffs from the serama coop. LOL I guess its mixed with silkie too.

 

[Granny Hatchet]

It's all about training but you are going to need help.

I have been running the vacuum and letting him bark instead of putting him outside. I figure next is correcting the barking but truthfully I dont have that licked yet except for water bottle. He thinks there is something evil in it I guess. He loves water.

 

[h2oratt]

don't exactly trust his plans personal reasons that all.

personally, if I didn't believe the Lord was in charge and had a plan for me, I don't think I could even get out of bed.

It sounds like you have had a hard , lonely life and you are so young. You are very smart, you will figure it out.

 

[Wishing4Wings]

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You need to turn it around... there is definitely something wrong with THEM, not with you. It is normal for a child to expect and crave love and attention from family because it's normal for families to give unconditional love (and constructive guidance). If these things are absent in your life it is not your fault. Spend some time working up some pity for these pathetic poor people who don't know how to love properly. It's much harder to be hurt by someone you pity.