So today I breached the topic of " never cleaning" as soon as we got to the log cabin. He said the windows look great. I said, not possible, I don't clean anything! Then he replied, that doesn't count because we don't live here. I hadn't vacuumed or swept the floor in the house in 2 months. Well, I spent a month packing and another month moving. I told him I have limited energy, so he said, You always have energy to go to ceramics. So twice a week for a couple of hours, I go sit on a chair at a table and make ceramics and talk to friends. Doesn't take much energy, and keeps me sane.