hahaa, I obviously cant tell a penis from a vagaga. When my cat had kittens I could. these are older .
Easy. I explained it like this. Lift tail. Do you see 1 hole or 2 lol and also if you see 2 are they connected. If so female. A male will have a finger space or more between. Sometimes a male kitten will scrunch his butt up and appear female, that's why I added the finger space lol