And this one:
• Let us think the unthinkable, let us do the undoable, let us prepare to grapple with the ineffable itself, and see if we may not eff it after all.
I am not going to worry about it. My seramas might love to sit but thats about it. I dont see good mamas there. This is going to be a nice one I think.
Very sobering day today. On Wed evening a body was discovered in a shallow grave at the university where #2 goes to high school. It was in a field near a parking lot at the edge of the campus. This morning the identity of the dead person was on the news. Turns out it was someone we know.
18 yr old boy, just graduated from high school, apparently missing from home since Oct.17, named Kirk Kimberly. #1 met Kirk in preschool and they became great friends all through elementary school, even though we lived in a different town from his family. He and #1 were extreme Lego nerds and spent a lot of time together either here or at Kirk's house. They eventually grew apart as they grew up, and the visits ended, but Kirk's mom and I kept up a little with occasional Christmas cards. I can't imagine how devastated Jennifer must be. Kirk was their only child. #1 never had another friend that he clicked with as much as Kirk, never anyone to come over and hang out. #1 is being very quiet, but I know he is upset by it. Said we need to send a card and if they have a vigil or memorial he wants to go. Maybe that doesn't seem like much, but for a kid who would never leave the house if he had his way, it is significant. At this point, there is no info about how he died. It's being investigated. Heartbreaking. Hug your loved ones, because you can.
Very sobering day today. On Wed evening a body was discovered in a shallow grave at the university where #2 goes to high school. It was in a field near a parking lot at the edge of the campus. This morning the identity of the dead person was on the news. Turns out it was someone we know.
18 yr old boy, just graduated from high school, apparently missing from home since Oct.17, named Kirk Kimberly. #1 met Kirk in preschool and they became great friends all through elementary school, even though we lived in a different town from his family. He and #1 were extreme Lego nerds and spent a lot of time together either here or at Kirk's house. They eventually grew apart as they grew up, and the visits ended, but Kirk's mom and I kept up a little with occasional Christmas cards. I can't imagine how devastated Jennifer must be. Kirk was their only child. #1 never had another friend that he clicked with as much as Kirk, never anyone to come over and hang out. #1 is being very quiet, but I know he is upset by it. Said we need to send a card and if they have a vigil or memorial he wants to go. Maybe that doesn't seem like much, but for a kid who would never leave the house if he had his way, it is significant. At this point, there is no info about how he died. It's being investigated. Heartbreaking. Hug your loved ones, because you can.
That is heartbreaking. and very scary as well. Was he special ? Bullied maybe ? A very hard thing for #1 . My thoughts are with him and his friends family.
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No, just a regular kid. #1 remembers playing Transformers more than Lego. Kirk had tons of toys and #1 was obsessed with Transformers. These days, when something like this happens, I always think of drug involvement. I hope is was some sort of accidental death, and someone panicked and hid the body. deep breath. As h2o said, way too close to home.
And this one:
• Let us think the unthinkable, let us do the undoable, let us prepare to grapple with the ineffable itself, and see if we may not eff it after all.
Very sobering day today. On Wed evening a body was discovered in a shallow grave at the university where #2 goes to high school. It was in a field near a parking lot at the edge of the campus. This morning the identity of the dead person was on the news. Turns out it was someone we know. 18 yr old boy, just graduated from high school, apparently missing from home since Oct.17, named Kirk Kimberly. #1 met Kirk in preschool and they became great friends all through elementary school, even though we lived in a different town from his family. He and #1 were extreme Lego nerds and spent a lot of time together either here or at Kirk's house. They eventually grew apart as they grew up, and the visits ended, but Kirk's mom and I kept up a little with occasional Christmas cards. I can't imagine how devastated Jennifer must be. Kirk was their only child. #1 never had another friend that he clicked with as much as Kirk, never anyone to come over and hang out. #1 is being very quiet, but I know he is upset by it. Said we need to send a card and if they have a vigil or memorial he wants to go. Maybe that doesn't seem like much, but for a kid who would never leave the house if he had his way, it is significant. At this point, there is no info about how he died. It's being investigated. Heartbreaking. Hug your loved ones, because you can.
The one thing I have learned is that there is no such thing as a safe place... A safe neighborhood... Just watching the boys that use to be over all the time grow up.. Just no safe place. My heart just aches for you all.