I'd .......her. I better not use the word I want to in case someone reads into it too much.But you are not teaching four young children. And the oldest, 7 years old is not quite, or almost reading. Hell i was reading when i was 4. If you can't teach your kids, get your butt out of bed in the morning and send them to school! She does not get up until 10 with small kids! Does not dress them unless someone is coming over. Her house looks and smells like someone trashed it looking for valuables and left the fridge open for several days. Now you got me started...lets just say DIL is not my favorite person. Poor kids.
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