Let me clarify my words:
1. The quality of the help is decided if the work is done to your satisfaction or not, and not according to the timing you got an explanation.
2. Belive me I know it from experience
, when I seat on a roof in the middle of a hot summer day try to solve a problem that popped in the middle of the work, I don't have the patience to explain why I do that or the other.
3. If you have the knowledge on how power tools works, or electricity, or plumbing, carpentering, wall fixing and painting, construction, cement preparing ect.ect... There is no problem at all, BUT if you don't, the MIDDLE of work isn't the perfect timing
4.I believe that a common household is a "cart" that both partners carry up the hill, and when the children arrive, they also join in the effort and thus the house as a whole is getting better and better. So the word "help" is not the right word. When I take the laundry out of the washing machine or turn off the dishwasher or cook a meal for the children, I do not "help" my wife! I help my family get better! And the situation is like this when my wife cooperates with me, she does not help me! She helps the family unit improve. The issue is, like almost everything in life, a matter of timing!. ...
