That's the truth. We get to make the little everyday decisions, and sometimes big ones, but being in control is an illusion.Maybe they have came with better Technics since he went through all that. It has been a long time. When we were dating he said he didnt think it was fair to Robert because he may not live very long. He wouldnt be able to teach him sports. I have to think back to my words that day. I said Tom, You are playing God. We all have a # wrote on us and its not for you or me to say what that # is. It could be tomorrow or it could be 50 yrs from now. You cant live being afraid of dying.

Wish I could do more, but glad I could help a little.