Granny's gone and done it again

[twisted-acres-farm]

well I am off to go ride some horse and shoot things.

might get back latter.

 

[twisted-acres-farm]

I'm getting into a hard spot here, and seriously thinking of looking for somewhere else to live. I know my fam can't see anything I post here. I have lived alone for almost ten years, my brother talked me into moving in with him and my sil because they had four open bedrooms and plenty of land to roam. The first few months were great, we hardly ran into each other. They both work late sometimes, I would have supper on the table for them. I also became the kitchen bitch...the only one that knows where the damn dishwasher is, lol. That was all fine with me, I know how it is to work your ass off all day. It just worked for us for a while....and then, their 32 year old non working son moved back inFights have been going on about him not holding a job because he would rather smoke pot. It drives my brother insane, but my SIL takes up for him(their son) It got really bad last week...My Sil, took my 30 something year old Nephew and left. They just now came back tonight because they were causing too many problems at my Nieces where they were staying. Good grief, I can't handle the tension. I'm not sure if it's because I was on my own for so long, or it's just their crazyness. I also pay rent, and buy all the groceries when I cook for them. I haven't been just mooching. My SIL made the statement looking straight at me when she was leaving, "EVERYBODY" that lives here will be looking for a place when I am done. I knew she would come back, I am glad I didn't say a damn word because emotions were running high. That really hurt my feelings. They have been married since I was 15 years old....I can't believe she turned around pissed at me. I know this stuff isn't resolved with their son...the shit is going to hit the fan again sometime soon. I am now looking at the papers and local websites for a little place to buy or rent on my own. It's such a shame, we were all doing great until the nephew came back. I am so sorry I am venting and this was so looooooong!!!!

UFFDA !!!!!!!!!!

and this is a GREAT place to vent and occasionally get helpful suggestions.

 

[AlleysChicks]

I'm getting into a hard spot here, and seriously thinking of looking for somewhere else to live. I know my fam can't see anything I post here. I have lived alone for almost ten years, my brother talked me into moving in with him and my sil because they had four open bedrooms and plenty of land to roam. The first few months were great, we hardly ran into each other. They both work late sometimes, I would have supper on the table for them. I also became the kitchen bitch...the only one that knows where the damn dishwasher is, lol. That was all fine with me, I know how it is to work your ass off all day. It just worked for us for a while....and then, their 32 year old non working son moved back inFights have been going on about him not holding a job because he would rather smoke pot. It drives my brother insane, but my SIL takes up for him(their son) It got really bad last week...My Sil, took my 30 something year old Nephew and left. They just now came back tonight because they were causing too many problems at my Nieces where they were staying. Good grief, I can't handle the tension. I'm not sure if it's because I was on my own for so long, or it's just their crazyness. I also pay rent, and buy all the groceries when I cook for them. I haven't been just mooching. My SIL made the statement looking straight at me when she was leaving, "EVERYBODY" that lives here will be looking for a place when I am done. I knew she would come back, I am glad I didn't say a damn word because emotions were running high. That really hurt my feelings. They have been married since I was 15 years old....I can't believe she turned around pissed at me. I know this stuff isn't resolved with their son...the shit is going to hit the fan again sometime soon. I am now looking at the papers and local websites for a little place to buy or rent on my own. It's such a shame, we were all doing great until the nephew came back. I am so sorry I am venting and this was so looooooong!!!!

That sounds like a rough situation. I’m sorry you are going through that. Hopefully it’s sorted soon.

My 2 cents is your nephew is too old to be doing dumb crap. And his mama is too old to have blinders on. I would also not cook if she can’t be grateful. Sometimes they see things better once they aren’t there.

 

[Studio Chick]

UFFDA !!!!!!!!!!

and this is a GREAT place to vent and occasionally get helpful suggestions.

I would have loved to stay here, plenty of room for chickens or whatever. But I think I might do better when I live alone. Some of the things that go on with my nephew, and my SIL takes up for him

 

[Studio Chick]

That sounds like a rough situation. I’m sorry you are going through that. Hopefully it’s sorted soon.

My 2 cents is your nephew is too old to be doing dumb crap. And his mama is too old to have blinders on. I would also not cook if she can’t be grateful. Sometimes they see things better once they aren’t there.

Thank you Alley

 

[h2oratt]

Studio chick, that is the beaut6 of this site, we can vent because only us chicken people are here. Sounds bad to me. I would start looking to move. It won’t resolve and yo7 will just be made to look l8ke the bad guy.

 

[pertnear09]

To blow in loud, violent gusts, as the wind during a storm

Blustery aka politician

 

[Studio Chick]

OMG! I just went outside for a smoke and took my little dog out....the temp has dropped like crazy! It was 50 degrees a couple hours ago....it feels like it dropped at least 25 or more. The wind is crazy

 

[Bamabexchicks]

I'm getting into a hard spot here, and seriously thinking of looking for somewhere else to live. I know my fam can't see anything I post here. I have lived alone for almost ten years, my brother talked me into moving in with him and my sil because they had four open bedrooms and plenty of land to roam. The first few months were great, we hardly ran into each other. They both work late sometimes, I would have supper on the table for them. I also became the kitchen bitch...the only one that knows where the damn dishwasher is, lol. That was all fine with me, I know how it is to work your ass off all day. It just worked for us for a while....and then, their 32 year old non working son moved back inFights have been going on about him not holding a job because he would rather smoke pot. It drives my brother insane, but my SIL takes up for him(their son) It got really bad last week...My Sil, took my 30 something year old Nephew and left. They just now came back tonight because they were causing too many problems at my Nieces where they were staying. Good grief, I can't handle the tension. I'm not sure if it's because I was on my own for so long, or it's just their crazyness. I also pay rent, and buy all the groceries when I cook for them. I haven't been just mooching. My SIL made the statement looking straight at me when she was leaving, "EVERYBODY" that lives here will be looking for a place when I am done. I knew she would come back, I am glad I didn't say a damn word because emotions were running high. That really hurt my feelings. They have been married since I was 15 years old....I can't believe she turned around pissed at me. I know this stuff isn't resolved with their son...the shit is going to hit the fan again sometime soon. I am now looking at the papers and local websites for a little place to buy or rent on my own. It's such a shame, we were all doing great until the nephew came back. I am so sorry I am venting and this was so looooooong!!!!

We all vent on here sometimes. It's good to have a sounding board when you're trying to make a hard decision. It sounds like you already know what's gonna work best for you, I spent 14 years alone, and had serious doubts that I would ever be able to live with anyone before my hubs came along.

It would drive me bat crap crazy to deal with a bunch of drama like that. I got a mean bone if you push my buttons too hard, and find a good deal of solace and security being alone. Look for a place of your own before it hits the fan at your brothers. Check the papers and maybe look for a senior person who needs a helper in exchange for rent. You might still be able to live in the country that way. Might even save some $ on rent.

When you get ready to move out you should be honest with them, they are so used to being dysfunctional they dont realize how it looks to others. I'm sorry you got stuck in the middle.

 

[Studio Chick]

I was up all night with my doomed shipped eggs. I put them in my hoverbator (I loved my old one and had several great hatches in it). I let the shipped eggs rest in cartons (in the incubator after 24 hours of rest) all the air cells were messed up, and the other ones got lost for a couple of days during single digit temps...I added that dang new style turner, the flat one. I was getting worried about them not being turned at all for three days, so anyway. As I was laying in bed, reading stuff on BYC, I heard this noise from the incubator......The motor on that new turner really makes the temp spike, so I thought I finally had that taken care of. I kept hearing thunking noises, got up and looked. It had thrown two of the EE eggs over to the side, and my gauge for temp/hum was under the turner! All the eggs were riding on a big hump and rolling around