Granny's gone and done it again

[Granny Hatchet]

Folks, got a friends request on face book from a cousin that has never spoken more than 2 words to me my whole life. He's 11 years older then me and he has never visited my parents/siblings or I. He's always lived about 2 hours from us. he was a no show for both of my parents funerals/showings no calls/letters either. Ditto for graduations of me and my brothers (form high school or college), and both Brothers' weddings. I found out were he lived and went by his house when I was in his town, he sent his wife to the door to send me away. he never asked for # or address and never did try to contact me back. that's been almost 20 years ago. am I okay to ignore his friend request? I really don't want to see him or communicate to him since in my 44 years he has in essence made it a point not to know me, or have anything to do with me. I really don't know WHY he sent me this request. I would have rather not have any contact until the next family funeral (if he shows). Or am I wrong in not accepting this?

No one can answer that but you. If you dont want to talk to him then dont. Maybe he has regrets for his past and trying to make amends or just adding to his friends list but its all on how you feel about it.

 

[Granny Hatchet]

Morning all

 

[Granny Hatchet]

 

[h2oratt]

Folks, got a friends request on face book from a cousin that has never spoken more than 2 words to me my whole life. He's 11 years older then me and he has never visited my parents/siblings or I. He's always lived about 2 hours from us. he was a no show for both of my parents funerals/showings no calls/letters either. Ditto for graduations of me and my brothers (form high school or college), and both Brothers' weddings. I found out were he lived and went by his house when I was in his town, he sent his wife to the door to send me away. he never asked for # or address and never did try to contact me back. that's been almost 20 years ago. am I okay to ignore his friend request? I really don't want to see him or communicate to him since in my 44 years he has in essence made it a point not to know me, or have anything to do with me. I really don't know WHY he sent me this request. I would have rather not have any contact until the next family funeral (if he shows). Or am I wrong in not accepting this?

You don’t have to accept his friend request but can’t you message him and at least talk to him. I know the older I get the more I realize what is important. it isn’t acquiring stuff or trying to impress anyone, IT IS HOW WE TREAT OUR FELLOW MAN. relative or stranger , you just never know what others go through. I would at least want to talk to him. If he is the Same selfish person then you don’t need him in your life, but maybe he would like to make amends. It is up to you, you are closer to the situation.

 

[pertnear09]

anyone else get this ? it was in my mail.
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I ain't got nuttin like that Granny..

 

[Granny Hatchet]

Wouldnt surprise me if someone is trying to hack me. Which is pretty stupid.

 

[CapricornFarm]

Sold a Turkey hen and three Mille Fleur D'uccles so far. Chilly outside, must be 60° or less.

 

[h2oratt]

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[CapricornFarm]

Folks, got a friends request on face book from a cousin that has never spoken more than 2 words to me my whole life. He's 11 years older then me and he has never visited my parents/siblings or I. He's always lived about 2 hours from us. he was a no show for both of my parents funerals/showings no calls/letters either. Ditto for graduations of me and my brothers (form high school or college), and both Brothers' weddings. I found out were he lived and went by his house when I was in his town, he sent his wife to the door to send me away. he never asked for # or address and never did try to contact me back. that's been almost 20 years ago. am I okay to ignore his friend request? I really don't want to see him or communicate to him since in my 44 years he has in essence made it a point not to know me, or have anything to do with me. I really don't know WHY he sent me this request. I would have rather not have any contact until the next family funeral (if he shows). Or am I wrong in not accepting this?

Just ignore him.

 

[CapricornFarm]

I sold the second turkey hen , and a rabbit and bought 2 silkies ( partridge colored). So it was pretty good. My friend went to Goodwill and bought a jacket because the sun went under a cloud and didn't come back out. We did some shopping on the way home.
And I got 2 free doors for my goat shed!