Thank you for that Star, you made me cry! Lol. So many members of my immediate dysfunctional famiy did shame me for it, but I didn't care, I chose life, and they were all self-destructing with alcohol... I won't call it self-medicating, they were patently destroying themselves. I knew I had to get help or die and I'm so glad I did. It still took a long time, my life was turmoil for a good ten to 13 years afterward, but it's safe and secure and wonderful now, it was worth it. My only regret is that I waited so long, I would have saved myself and others a ton of misery if I'd gotten help sooner or if my parents hadn't been in denial like DL's and listened to me when I said something's wrong I NEED HELP. I hope she gets the help she needs.
There is no shame in the need to take medications. I tend to not take medications, but my experience with doctors has not always been the best.