Granny's gone and done it again

[Cynthia12]

her son

Sad

 

[cherrynberry]

Sad

Indeed

 

[Cynthia12]

my dh would never treat me that way. Its my son.

I'm glad it's not your husband. Your son, I kind of get, but that is so sad, I'm so sorry.

 

[Granny Hatchet]

You sure it isn't that he just doesn't know how to express his love??

I think that he feels like he has no control over his own life that he tries to control me.

 

[Granny Hatchet]

I could but then she could also destroy the apartment. She's already managed to sleep her way thru every male renter here. And managed to tork each of them off as well.

Thats nasty. She would go.

 

[cherrynberry]

I think that he feels like he has no control over his own life that he tries to control me.

Its hard for both parties. As a minor, its just so normal for people to expect me to be some way. Its like they are all waiting for me to become some sort of evil teenager. It feels weird being watched like that and constantly compared to other people "my age". But then, again, I can see your sides of the story too. Its hard being a parent!

 

[Cynthia12]

I think that he feels like he has no control over his own life that he tries to control me.

That makes sense. You're doing good with him. You have some understanding of him, this is good, doesn't feel good, but at least you know.

 

[Granny Hatchet]

Keven would help if I ask him to. I believe that man would do whatever I asked him too. Thats kinda scary too. lol

 

[BigBlueHen53]

I think that he feels like he has no control over his own life that he tries to control me.

Autistic people see the world in very literal, linear ways. He told her not to get the fish. Now she's having difficulties with them. In his mind, it serves her right bc she didn't do what he thought she should do. So he feels justified in letting it be her problem. Kind of, "you made your bed, now you lie in it" thinking. "Not my problem."

 

[BigBlueHen53]

Keven would help if I ask him to. I believe that man would do whatever I asked him too. Thats kinda scary too. lol

That's what makes him good at his job.