That's terrible, Pert. My mom passed from terminal cancer over 15 yrs ago. At the time it wasn't legal here to opt to end your own life. She would have if she had the choice. We kept her at home and nursed her til the end. Hospice came a couple times a week and were a huge help to us, but it was all very hard.Well it's good you can get out amongst them again. Look out, here comes Wishing.
I went up and seen my brother in hospice this morning. He's laying there looking nearly like a corpse. I don't understand the hospice mantra. Once there, you're not given a chance to survive. No food, no water. You're basically just on display until you starve to death. I'd sooner have a bullet in the brain.
So sorry about your brother. Feeling helpless like that is the hardest thing.