I have the comfort of believing in a resurrection. But it still hurts and even over 40 years later I still tear up when I think about it. I wish I could just put my arms around this dear girl and cry with her. Cynthia, please encourage her to get into grief counseling. She needs all the help she can get.Aww, thank you sweet girl. She carried this baby full term. I can't stop thinking about her sadness. I've lost two myself. It really is hard, even though you already have children. This was her first.