No matter what the organization, even non religious ones there is strength in numbers and people get a bad feeling that they are accused of being wrong about their views or what ever. If every one in an area had Hereford cattle and right in the middle of them someone sold out his Hereford cattle for Aberdeen Angus I'm sure there would be negative sentiment toward him. Maybe even could happen with chicken breeds in the right areas.I think it would anger them, especially the trouble makers.
There is a general attitude of "I won't take anything off of you because you left the faith", the faith being the amish lifestyle. The vast majority in this area don't care whether I'm right with God, they only care that we left the amish faith.
Don't get me wrong though because there are those that are friendly and caring towards us, it's just not the general rule.
In most of their minds it's far worse to leave the amish faith than it is to live in sin.