Granny's gone and done it again

Howdy all, Im not gonna make it to go see Tom today. Sucks. Im peeing blood again. Hurts. I did call and he seems to be doing good. They even gave him a shower! :eek: Not sure how they got him to agree to that. . He was actually looking forward to it. At least he kept trying to take his clothes off while I was there yesterday.
I had hoped to take Robert with me today shopping for some Christmas things. No clue what to get Tom or for dinner. I kinda hate to have frozen dinners but that may be what it comes down to. Not gonna happen today anyway.
 
Howdy all, Im not gonna make it to go see Tom today. Sucks. Im peeing blood again. Hurts. I did call and he seems to be doing good. They even gave him a shower! :eek: Not sure how they got him to agree to that. . He was actually looking forward to it. At least he kept trying to take his clothes off while I was there yesterday.
I had hoped to take Robert with me today shopping for some Christmas things. No clue what to get Tom or for dinner. I kinda hate to have frozen dinners but that may be what it comes down to. Not gonna happen today anyway.
Awww sorry!!!!!
 
Hi guys.

@Granny Hatchet, so sorry to hear about Tom. Girl. NO GUILT. You have gone above and beyond. I had to make the decision to put my dad in the nursing home where I was working. It was hard but it was best for both of us. I loved (and always will) him dearly. He was my daddy. But he wasn't safe at home alone anymore while I worked and the stress was eating away at me between work and worrying about him setting the house on fire.

I felt guilty till one of the aides who was taking care of him asked his nurse...how did Becky take care of him for three years and work here too? She told him, because she didn't have a choice and had to. Looking back now I can see that it was slowly killing me. Not physically, but emotionally and mentally. You did what was best for him first and for you and your son second so please don't beat yourself up. God bless you.:hugs
 

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