I'm so sad!

My grandson in Houston is on probation. I had to write a letter to his PO asking permission for him to come visit. I was sure he'd get permission. But.... sadly ... he did not. So not only are my plans for this wonderful visit, and my heart, shattered, but I am also out $277 for his plane ticket. Which is non-refundable. And I think also non-transferable. Which, if it were not, I would have his mom, my daughter, use.

WHY did I buy the ticket before getting permission? Because I didn't know, that's why! I didn't know he was on probation. I didn't know he needed permission till after the fact. And now I'm crushed.