Granny's gone and done it again

My mother used to say that we all want to go to heaven but none of us are anxious to make the journey. I have to admit I'm bad about talking about it with DH. We have talked but that is all. I've dealt with so much death in my career that it's something I tend to push to the back of my mind a lot. I don't believe in big funerals. Another quip from my mother was when she knew she was dying she laid the law down to me. No visitation, no big funeral. If people didn't care enough to visit her when she was alive she didn't want them weeping crocodile tears over her when she was in a casket. We had a graveside service for her after cremation. It was a sunny spring day and beautiful. I told my husband, I didn't want a big wedding...we got married by a judge with two friends standing with us in Casa Grande Arizona...and I don't want a big funeral when that time comes. You are just as married with the first and just as dead with the second.

Morning all. Lots to do today. Up in the low 80s so I've got one more flower bed to go over so tending to that today and may go for a short dirt bike ride. Hope everyone is having a good morning.
Wow I agree with that. I tried to go visit my grandparents before they died. The funeral wasn’t as important. You are so right about visiting before hand.
 

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