he sent it because he had plans already. ? Or , If I have to send money I want something out of it ? You know him better then we do. Is he a drunk, beater, or a good guy that just didnt work out ? No, you dont have to let him see the kids at all if you have concerns but in another 9 yrs. he will be back telling them he tried all he could to visit and you wouldnt let him. Dont let that stop you if you feel their safety is involved.
He won't physically hurt my kids. His family is cracked though. Just talked to Michael. He said he blocked him and has no interest and he said that will confuse Vinnie... So I have one more kid to talk too.