Grrr.....Hobby Farm = Mental Illness?

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So I mentioned on that evil nemesis, Facebook, that I want to get honeybees.

Apparently I've crossed the line from having a hobby to having a mental illness. Yes, I have chickens - layers and meaties. They are well cared for, clean, no stink, no madness. If you drive by and I don't have them free ranging, you would never know. Even going in the coop, the sight and sound of them will tell you, no mess or stink. Bedding is stacked carefully, feed is contained in drums and lidded, it's a good setup. DH likes organization and cleanliness, so he's made sure everything is organized.

I garden. Again, it's far back from the road, clean, fenced, and well managed. I love my garden. I'm expanding it this weekend. I share produce, can a LOT, and just enjoy my bounty. Again, no mess, no stink, lots of organization and cleanliness.

I'm getting pigs. I've spent the past few months reading books, websites, talking to people, emailing, and just learning as absolute much as I can about pig raising. I've planned out where they will be located - away from the neighbors, and planned fencing (hog panel and electric), housing, feed and feed storage, waterering, shade, mudholes, foraging in my garden during off season, etc. I hope to get a pair of pigs next month for fall slaughter.

We live on one acre in the middle of BFE, dirt road, one "close" neighbor who enjoys our critters (they used to have every farm animal you could name, back when their kids were young). They enjoy feeding scraps to the chickens (they asked permission first), and enjoy coming over to visit. They also share produce with us, as we share with them. Other than them, we are surrounded by about 100 acres of old farmland that has gone wild.

So I want a hive or two of bees - to help pollination since I'm getting more into heirloom gardening, to help my neighbor with his orchard, and to help with my future orchard. I also love honey. I like bees and know their importance in life.

But yeah. Simple post of "I want to get honeybees", and someone says that I need to slow down and not cross the line from hobby to mental illness. Seriously? Didn't you know I grew up in a farming community? I've loved the outdoors, have had a garden my entire life, no matter where I lived, and it's taken me 5 years to even get to where I am now - a year of planning for chickens (though I had them as a child and again in FFA), about a year to get pigs (though again, raised in FFA), and probably a year before I get bees (which will probably mean spending time with our "up- north" neighbor who has a HUGE business in beekeeping). I'm mental??

My husband likes helping me out, and our daughter LOVES it. I'm proud of her helping me with the chickens and in the garden. She loves being outside and in the dirt with me. It's a family way of things, and we like having our little "farm" in the country, where everything is well cared for and productive. Both DH and I work, and work hard, and it's actually nice to come home to the critters and spend time with them. I love sitting out with the chickens when they range, and relax with them, or spending time in the soil watching things grow. I love being self sufficient.

Of course, said person has never been out here.

/end rant

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How stinking rude!!! I swear, some people don't "get it"! It's so much better to keep eating high fructose corn syrup, right?!?
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I wish we could get a pig, and so does DH, but we live in town and I'm pushing it with chickens! But I am raising my first batch of meaties right now. Shhh, don't tell anyone, ha ha!

I did want to get bee hives last year, but our neighbor is very allergic to bee stings, so that idea is out of the question. (But she may be moving...) I asked my mom if I could keep a hive or two on her property and she said I could, but I just haven't gotten to that point yet. Maybe next year...

I do not think at all that you are crazy!!! I think your facebook "friend" is just clueless. Keep up the good work!
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Mental illness? Says who? It makes it sound like you were into hoarding bees or something. Let such thoughtless and insensitive comments go in one ear and out the other. Sounds to me like somebody who thinks inside the box and has a little jealousy on the side. The fact that you can manage so many things says a lot about you. Not everyone can do that.
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Um, how does wanting some bees constitute mental illness?
I just LOVE know it all, holier than thou types. smack
Tell Dr. Do Nothing to mind their own business and stop diagnosing mental illness on a social networking site.
 
The thing is, it doesn't feel like I have a lot. Of course, I grew up on a horse farm that was split into two businesses, one a breeding farm, one a training farm. Total we cared for about 30-50 horses, depending on the time of the year. We also had ducks, chickens, geese, gardens, dogs, cats and all that. It's all in the planning. I hit TSC up regularly, buy the food and shavings in mass amounts, and store them well. I take my time and find deals for things we need, like more fencing (just lined up a contact for hog panel, so I don't pay full price). We never jump into things without planning and discussion. DH was leery about pigs, but he knows the research I've done, and he's starting to get excited about them.

I guess our priorities are to be outdoors and not out doing other "stuff" or being inside watching TV or playing video games. Of course, we are finally getting very stable in life with our incomes, and have some more disposable income to use on the house and property. DH works on house projects, I work on yard projects, and we both help each other out.

I just don't get people though. If producing your own food is mental, then I guess someone should throw the book at me.
 
I think it's due to the recent popularity of 'hoarders' and related shows. Everyone who has more than a few animals is a suspect hoarder and hiding chickens/goats/pigs/rats in their bathrooms and closets.
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IMO, if all the animals get proper care,feed, housing (ie no beekeeping in your kitchen to go with that coop in your living room) and you are not skimping on your own food/rent/kids/necessities to pay for it, go for it!
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If my phone wasn't dead and my charger at work, I'd take some pictures of our yard. It's not perfectly manicured, but it's not cluttered, messy, or crammed. Lots of space. I landscape the front differently each year to make it pleasing from the road, and DH trims the trees to make them pleasing to look at. The back is cleaned, no stuff scattered, and anything fenced is fenced square and clean.

No critters in the house other than the dog. Chickens are in a coop on the side yard, pigs will be behind the garden in the back of the property, and the bees, probably will do them next year, will be on the other far corner, far from the neighbors. Everything is well cared for and happy, including us
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Actually, I do have an aerial:

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The pile of junk there in the back yard was when we pulled off the back room of the house to expand. Of course, google had to take a picture right then. It's all long since been used or burned, there is nothing there now, other than a small firepit.

The garden and chickens are there, the pigs line is the proposed area
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Good for you and don't listen to them!

Your place looks great. Much neater than mine....but am still pushing and working on it. Married DH 6 years ago and we have come a long way. He lived here almost 30 years, was a builder, and 'stuff' was everywhere.

Because I want the woods 'clean' and the driveway neat and clean. Because I have planted flowerbeds and made the place look nice, he continues to want to get rid of the 'stuff' and clean up the place. We are a work in progress. He is out of town working and I am home working as hard as I can to keep things up and improve.

Last year we raised to pigs. We enjoyed them. I loved having them to feed the scraps to as I do live way out in the country and do not have a garbage disposal. Trust me, they knew me and loved to see me coming. Anything I could not give to the chickens went to the pigs.

Love my chickens and love my coops that DH built me. They are quite rustic and I love the way they look. DH is talking once again about a couple of pigs when he comes home.

And the honeybee thing.....I would love to have a hive or two.

I never in my entire life lived where it was not on a 'block'. This is a wonderful place to live. Ok...except for the racoon but he is gone now.

Enjoy your life. I have my chicken partner, my DGD, who loves to be up here weekends and help with the chickens. Life is good and quiet and wonderful up here on the mountain.

Forget your 'friend' on facebook.
 

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