Oh yes,

I worked in food service for several years.. Man, there were some real nasty customers... didnt matter, my job was to be polite and serve them respectfully. Period.
I'm ALWAYS polite to servers, unless i get a REAL jackwagon/rude server,.... then my evil side comes out ..

My mother, on the other hand, had worked as a waitress for 20-30 years,... and she expected her food to be what she ordered,.. if she ordered a steak medium-rare, it better come out to her medium-rare.. or it was going back to the kitchen...
I cant even tell you how many times i sat there eating my crummy food, going "Ma, you DO know they are out back spitting on your steak right now, dont ya?"
The sad part, she was RIGHT, the meat wasnt cooked right,.. ... but still, its sad/ disgusting that you cant trust a lot of restaurants/servers to not be nasty and mess with your food if you, "cause them problems"... Just disgusting how they blame YOU for their shabby cooking and service..
Now, my mother being a waitress for so long, NEVER blamed the waitress for the COOKS screw-ups,... she KNEW how it went... the cooks screw up and the waitress gets the brunt of it,... no tip,... angry customers, etc,... Not fair at all.
If you have problem with the FOOD, its not the servers fault,... ask to speak to the chef,..
If your server is a rude smart azz,.. yeah, thats different...
