Hatching Eggs / Paypal CHAT Thread

[AyeUpChuck]

CJ if you're in here I posted te offer again for you.

 

[Sahwithchicks]

Once a girl has got it in her head to go that route, condoms won't even stop her.  I just don't know what to say to him.  I feel no joy at all.  He's too young to be a dad already.

I am sorry this happened. Personally, I got pregnant before I was ready to have kids (just before I turned 23) because I was still in party mode. However, it was the absolute bet thig for me. I was completely irresponsible and was way too heavy of a partyer... But then I found a reason to behave and straighten up.

That doesn't mean it is best for people to have kids early, it just turned out well for me. Some people really deserve to enjoy their young adult years... I just over enduldge.

Maybe she is lying about it? I not, I hope you guys can find a way to deal with it

 

[madamwlf]

I am sorry this happened. Personally, I got pregnant before I was ready to have kids (just before I turned 23) because I was still in party mode. However, it was the absolute bet thig for me. I was completely irresponsible and was way too heavy of a partyer... But then I found a reason to behave and straighten up.
That doesn't mean it is best for people to have kids early, it just turned out well for me. Some people really deserve to enjoy their young adult years... I just over enduldge.
Maybe she is lying about it? I not, I hope you guys can find a way to deal with it

They've already been to a doctor. He moved her to Florida from Maryland a month ago. Got an apartment and she has no job. I have never understood why girls think military are the best ones to latch on to. Military pay is horrid, especially for a young man just starting out. It's going to be a struggle with just him working and neither one of them have family down there.

 

[DMRippy]

Well, I just found out I'm to be a grandmother. Please, no congratulations. I'm not all that happy about it. He's been seeing this girl for 2 months and living with her for barely a month. I feel as though she completely entrapped him. Military guy, got her out of a small town where she probably would have gone nowhere, medical paid, housing paid and living in Panama City, FL. I just don't understand that young person's need to grow up so quickly.

I have been through the same thing.... now he is 3 baby girls deep, he REFUSES to marry her so there is an upside to my situation. I don't think it is a need to grow up as much as a need to be LOVED. She says if he does not marry her in like 3 years she is gone... he has custody of one girl legally, he has the house and cars so not sure she would even get the girls in a custody battle. I made sure he got custody several years ago because she is a bit flaky.

 

[madamwlf]

I have been through the same thing.... now he is 3 baby girls deep, he REFUSES to marry her so there is an upside to my situation. I don't think it is a need to grow up as much as a need to be LOVED. She says if he does not marry her in like 3 years she is gone... he has custody of one girl legally, he has the house and cars so not sure she would even get the girls in a custody battle. I made sure he got custody several years ago because she is a bit flaky.

I wish I could say the same. He is marrying her. I wish them the best but I'm not hopeful. He has pretty much cut himself off from his family in Maryland, including me. My DH asks if I'm going to talk to him about it. No, he's grown, obviously acting grown. Time for him to make his own mistakes and hopefully learn by them.

 

[CluckyCharms]

Am I the only one seeing red right now? I guess so.

...going to go back to watching a Christmas movie.

 

[madamwlf]

Am I the only one seeing red right now? I guess so.

...going to go back to watching a Christmas movie.

 

[debs_flock]

Quote:
My step-SIL is the team dentist for the A's. And, hey.......................I'm a Dallas fan!

Quote:
Very long movies. When I saw the first one at the theater. Every time I thought it was over, they'd turn a corner and run into a new peril. I'd think......................."it's not over yet???".

Hoo boy, madamwlf! Yeah, I know what you mean. Boy oh boy did I drill the whole condoms thing into my boy's head - not that it always helps...

I asked my family doctor for advice on what to say to my son. He said, you want to know what I told my own son?
Give him a box of condoms and say, "Put it on before you put it in and leave it on until you take it out!"

Quote: Well, you feel no joy now, but at least a baby has that sweet smell........................like puppy breath!

Deb

 

[madamwlf]

I can not believe it. GFF has blocked me from their auctions because I opened a PP claim against them.

 

[birdnbeast]

I can not believe it. GFF has blocked me from their auctions because I opened a PP claim against them.

Didn't they owe you a refund or something but you haven't been able to get communication to get a resolution?