husband is still sober and adjusting his attitude. slowly, but surely. i can't expect huge steps. i'll take the little ones anyday. so i think our marrage can be saved. i'm starting to get my the guy i married back. it feels good. thank you all for your support. it helps to talk to strangers who don't know us. hugs to all of you
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Very wise advise. Staying just for the kids is not good. I stayed in a bad marriage and then she left, took the kids. It took two years, but the truth came out and now I have sole custody. The kids prayed for a new mother and we have the nicest new family. My wife is adopting the children. Consider marriage counseling. Get involved in achurch. Find a support group. There is help. We will keep you in our prayers.
Oh, DO NOT SEARCH FOR ANYTHING IN THIS CATIGORY ON YOUR HOME COMPUTER. Use the Delete Browsing History function. If he is controling, he may be watching what you search. Call the National (800/799-7233) or local domestic violence helpline.
another update. husband still sober and now have 2 families i care for and tomarrow i have another interview with another family. i'm pretty good at this.
i'm getting my babies the first week of june. i feel like i'm pregnant all over again for the first time.