Hello there and welcome to BYC!
While a freshly hatched chick will bond with the first large form hovering over them, day old chicks will also bond with you just as easily. I am not sure about ducks, as I have never kept them. But as for other poultry I have kept, I have never noticed a difference in bonding behavior between hatched from an egg or purchased as day old chicks.
All this being said, most chicks are afraid of you as to them they are not sure of your intentions. They don't like to be grabbed from above as a predator might grab them. It is instinctual for a chick to run for it's life.
But you can work with them by moving slowly around them, going in very slowly into the brooder, scooping them up from below and making every experience for them a positive one.
I have found that getting chicks out for field trips either to the living room floor or outside in a safe enclosure works quick to bond them to you. Each of these places is a scary big area for them and they will naturally turn to you for safety. This creates that bond, them to you, and sticks with them that you are safe to rely on.
So give them time. As they grow, spend more time with them, bring them some treats, let them climb all over you and before you know it, you have some real lap babies.
As for hatching, if you have never done a hatch before, it can be quite disappointing to wait out all those days with no success. Chicks are instant.
Good luck with which ever route you choose and welcome to our flock!