Maye, I have a TWH, gaited. She has a wonderful gait, even better when I'm sitting straight., she becomes straight, and relaxes into the bit. Then I find myself stiffening up just to hold the position, and when Instructor gets me relaxed, the stiffness moves into my neck and jaw. Owww! I ride in a Tucker Plantation, it seems to feel the closest to a dressage seat than any other non-dressage saddle. Not a chair seat like most.
Verthandi, your having to come back from a back injury reminds me I think my problems started in 1995 when I had a car accident and broke some ribs on the right side. From then on it's been fighting a slump, and keeping that right side from collapsing all the time. I should have started exercise back then.
I am having trouble "feeling" what is a balanced seat and body. I can't feel my way into balance. I can be told where balanced seat is, just hard to locate it by feel. Quite a few people in the past year have said to me "do you know you're sitting crooked?" How do I feel it, aside from having equal weight in each stirrup?