Kelly, my doe just had her first kid on the 13th and I didn't know what I was doing either. The ligaments are fairly easy to find maybe this description will help...if you move your fingers back from the tailhead about 3 inches and work your way back toward the tailhead, you should feel a ligament on each side about 2.5 to 3 inches back. It feels like about the size of a number 2 pencil that angles from the spine toward the pin bones like a "V" with the point toward the front. At first they are not very soft, but as she gets ready they will begin to feel like a thick cord that gives a little as time goes on, and eventually u won't be able to feel them. It wasn't really hard to find on my doe. I have never even owned goats until these. I had to try a few times, but eventually found them, and by the time she had the baby I was sure that was what I was feeling because they were getting softer just as described at the Fiasco farm site. I hope baby and momma get through without trouble, and I hope this helps! Good luck!