Some of you guys don't understand.
What happened was, we only asked if us keeping the boys would be possibly, maybe okay with her. Since she already had two fridges with many dead roosters. We didn't demand it or anything of the sort, we only asked if she would mind. What she responded with wasn't "No, I want the roosters", it was "No, I never said I would ever exchange anything with you, ever". basically meaning: tough titties you got roosters instead of hens. Even though when they were purchased and when I talked to her on facebook, she said she'd exchange them, but when called, she refused ever having any of those conversations.
The main thing that upset me is that she's pretty much lying about this. Like I said before, if she told me she couldn't afford to do it I'd understand. It's tough times for a lotta people, but ignoring any correspondence and being rude on the phone to us isn't very nice nor is it good business.
Though, I'm sure there are good people on Craigslist and nice farmers, like I said, I really think I'll just go with hatcheries from now on. Even asking for advice is more confrontation than I can handle (I suffer from rather severe social anxiety and tending the chickens and bonding with them usually calms me down, I've always found it cathartic).
I also edited my first post with this clarification just, to avoid further misunderstanding.