Fun thread! I've got a cool perspective on homesteading because I am a single woman. I'm still pretty new to homesteading and am consistently working towards living a more independent and self-sufficent lifestyle.
I live on a rural farm in which I lease out the tillable acres to a local farmer. The amount I get is enough to cover all of my annual bills, property taxes, insurance, utilities, etc. Basically the farm pays for itself.
I heat my home primarily with wood, don't have any air conditioning or a dishwasher, and reuse instead of throw away (glass instead of plastic, linen and china instead of paper, compost everything).
I barter for goods and services as much as possible. Currently I have over two cords of firewood, 150 lbs of beef, and 100 lbs of fresh pork in the freezer. A neighboring farmer uses his awesome equipment to till up my garden, spread compost, and deliver manure to me. I also get free straw. All thanks to bartering.
I am just now finally getting into chickens. I have three Giants, one Orphington, and two Americaunas. I literally *just* started getting eggs! Very very excited about that. Also five female Muscovys but I don't expect any eggs from them until the Spring. I am making meat chicken plans right now too. One of my biggest goals with the chickens is to get them to pay for themselves which seems kinda hard to do considering I'm surrounded by farms.
I would like to say that the previous comment about how no one should feel like a "homestead wannabe" is spot on. Some of the most beautiful and productive homestead properties I see around me are the smaller places, maybe around an acre in size or less. Any amount of sustainable change is a wonderful thing to add to our lives.
I think it's good that you take account of what you buy and what you supply for yourself.
I always cringe when I read about homesteaders, but one or the other is a writer or some other profession. OR they inherited the property or live on land their parents or some other relative own. I gave DW a small plaque I bought that says "every successful Rancher has a woman who works in town".
I've recently decided to keep files on what I spend on my chickens and what I sell. Records are important.
So far what we spend on chickens and feed is more than if we bought eggs outright. BYC helps think about how to save and manage my chickens. One thing I've learned is don't put all you chickens in one basket. I keep a variety of breeds since they're laying cycles and habits can vary. This way I have eggs at all times, though I will say my Dels are best. Hybrids are better layers. Dual purpose is best but many breeds have been ruined and some of us here are trying to fix that. Utility and heartiness is my goal in breeding and keeping.
It can be hard to figure on crops and quantity. How much is needed and how much to plant. Though I suppose more is better, since it does a body good to donate to the less fortunate.
So that said since I began, We no longer buy eggs of course, I do can jellies and jams, tomatoes and freeze some other vegetables.
Now be aware that while we did pay to pick apples, there are free apples and fruit out there if you can find abandoned orchards. My neighbor gave me apples that only needed to be peeled for free. Another neighbor has a pear tree loaded that also will need to be peeled but are fine other wise.
I trade chickens/chicks/ hatching eggs for hay. Find a farmer who needs to clean out his barn for the new years harvest.
We no longer buy garlic. An easy crop to grow in my raised beds.
I have a Granny Smith apple tree to plant and garlic of course. We got our first frost last night.
If you can't afford magazines go to the book store and have a look for free. Though Mother Earth news is affordable IMO. Or share a subscription. I do subscribe but then barter with back issues if I can.
Remember to collect that cardboard for mulch. Store it up if need be. Saves lots of time. Remember to use #19 cans or other things around the plants you can to conserve and save time watering.
Homesteading to me is an on going process. I like how it evolves so I don't get bored.
I wish you well,
Rancher