Okiron - this is a good vent. Everyone has felt this way. Please, I beg you listen to the folks in this thread. BUY something! I had a great group of people cheering me on like this two years ago, and I started hunting. The market is even better now.... much much better!
A lot of banks/private/etc will wrap your closing costs into the loan so you don't have to actually pay up front. For instance, say you bought a house for 150,000 with 7,000 in closing costs. The seller (as long as it appraises for 157,000) will take 157,000 for it and give you the 7,000 cash back for your closing/title changes/fees/etc.... its done ALL THE TIME, written into the contract, and its how most people come up with the huge cost to get into a house. And the beautiful thing is, houses just go up in value. I took the chance, found a seller that helped me by doing this... and now my house, two years later, is worth almost 100,000 more than when I started. Don't settle for what you don't want. Settle for what you CAN AFFORD (even if its scary expensive/big step/lots of problems!) in the long run.... no one can afford to rent long. Be a home owner! Please! Listen to these folks.. but buy something for you... not those crazy expensive houses no one can afford
The person that suggested Norco... I love that city.
Walmart has a hitching post and almost every back yard has a horse in it. Its crazy beautiful. Good suggestion!