I don't know that I have any 'haters' in my circle of friends, but I had someone tell me once (when I dyed my hair a dark shade of red) that she didn't like it--that was fine, she is certainly entitled to her opinion. But when she went on & on about it, I finally had to say something, especially since there were other people listening. I politely told her that when her opinion mattered to me, I would make sure she was the first one I called the next time I decided to make such a life-altering change...that shut her up & let the others know that I don't do what I do to please them!
Sounds like you need to take a stand & stop letting people bully you. They're YOUR chickens & it shouldn't matter what others think about it.