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Yeah, I would have assumed the parent would help also but I find that to be more rare these days. When my older kids, now 26 & 27 yes old parents would have at least checked in to see things were being done properly if not going every day. But with my youngest, 10 yrs old, parents are much different in holding kids accountable and teaching them to be accountable and do things the right way. It's honestly hard to watch. And I swear the other parents look at me sideways since I still parent the same as I did the older ones. Lord forbid I've taught my kid "the look" which I'm guessing some of you on here know the one I'm talking aboutSounds like my last vacation lol
My neighbor has 4 kids and they love the chickens, so I asked if she would like to have the kids watch the chickens for 10 days. The kids are younger so I assumed that she would be with them to make sure they did things correctly. Nope.
Same thing, auto door, auto feeder, large auto waterer. Feed was empty, chickens were pecking at the empty bin, no water, etc.
Same frustrations. Watching chickens is not that difficult. Just go and make sure they have water and food, let them out as needed. No brainer.
No, you are not out of line to expect someone to do something so basic.


I try to be gracious and kind. Maybe I've just caught them at a bad time. It's the end of the school year and she is graduating. Exams, licensing tests, finishing up school stuff, or whatever else may have unexpectedly came up could have just overwhelmed her and she was embarrassed to say nor wanted to leave me with no care. If my chickens were suffering greatly or unrepairable damage was done I may have considered saying something. But the rooster was brought in and out, the chickens seem to be recovering ok and hubs can fix the door.Everybody is so kind with their replys. Not me, I would march right up to her door (guns blazing) just kidding, and demand an explanation, then report her to the vet school. Also post her work ethic on the same board so no one else gets suckered.
I am hopeful this was a one off. If someone reaches out to me about my experience I would not lie, but I do not feel the need to put that negativity out there.
You all have been so validating of my feelings of frustration and I am grateful for that. Most people don't understand my love for my chickens, but you all do
