Some people love having a flock, some love individual birds. Most I think are as Orchid, some birds are pets, some birds don't fit the plan. I have had kids in 4H, a great organization that teaches responsible husbandry, the importance of chores, and the reality of life and death. In rural communities, children are routinely taken to funerals, as there is less distinction between age groups. My children have worked livestock with people of all ages, gathering cattle, sorting cattle, feeding and birthing cattle. The people grow old doing this and die. The children go to these funerals of people that they have know well. It is an act of respect. The final respect.
A lingering, tortuous death is not something to be tolerated by anyone in animal husbandry. Illness can endanger the whole flock or herd. Quickly quarantining sick animals, takes experience, and sometimes the coop de grace is the final act of respect a human can give an animal. It is not easy, but it is respectful.
Keeping a flock in size of your ability to care for it, is a responsibility too. Just being alive is not more important than having adequate feed and space to live in healthy conditions. For those of us that hatch, culling has to be part of that responsibility.
Many people on here have old flocks, that live out their lives in peace with out giving eggs. That is their choice, those are pets. Some people on her are more about food production and they are determined to be responsible, to give their birds a safe, healthy environment. They provide good food for their table, is a joy like that first tomato in August. That is their choice. I am a mix of those, I have had birds that did not work, too many cockerels, and an occasional sick bird that needed to be removed. However, right now, my old pet, Butter is once again broody on a nest. She does not lay often any more, but the chicks she has raised for me, well she gets to stay.
As long as we are keeping our birds healthy, fed and in sanitary conditions, lets not be judgmental about which group you are in.
Mrs K