This in spades! I'm in the same boat as Mary no seperate space to house young fellas. I'm only choosing between two luckily. My choice was made for me today. I put one of my boys in the run to give the flock peace. This guy had room, food, water he even got treats. He was in from 7 am until 5 pm when I was going to let him mingle. I opened the run and instead of running to the flock he ran up my leg. Choice was made, now i'm sure of my keeper and iv'e got a bird to process tomorrow. Sometimes you don't have to weigh your options very hard at all.All good advice! I don't have a separate coop and run for the boys, and go through the 'sift and winnow' process with my cockerels every year. I'm working on it now; a few chicks and adults left three weeks ago, and more will leave later in August. Most cockerels hatched do NOT find new flocks, and that's tough, but it's how things are. Providing a meal for a family is a good thing, when life has been good until that day, IMO.
Your hens and pullets deserve to have good lives too, and that includes not being driven wild by over-attentive males.
Mary