When in the primary, (white bucket) i leave my lid loose after pitching the yeast. i stir it very gently every day for a week. Then rack into the secondary, that is when you need the airlock. I have done it that way for a long time and never had a problem. When I started making wine, that is the way my instructions read and I have been doing it like that ever since. Most of my wine sartsw from juice. I finished a batch of strawberry wine last year, from fruit, that turned out excellent. I know everyone has different methods. Good luck with your batch. There is a good website, www.how-to-make-wine.net, he will want you to join. I never did join but I get some very informative emails from him.
Umm, actually his occupation is "REALTOR".
http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Mike_Carraway
I'm not saying he doesn't know how to make homemade wine, but he is NOT a "PROFESSIONAL" winemaker.
You are right, everyone has their own methods, even different countries vary in their methods and standards. So, if your method is working for you, go for it.

I add posts so that people new to the winemaking hobby would get off to a good start, before venturing out into "experimentation" or trying a method that is not an industry standard. (At least by this country's standards)
My only credentials are these:
I worked in a premium winery in the Napa valley for several years, and was Married to the V.P and winemaker of that winery for over 15 years. I have been making wine for many years myself, and although I don't consider myself a "PROFESSIONAL" winemaker (yet), I do know a quite a bit about winemaking. (Our "winery" is still in the planning stages

This award was for a Dry Nectarine Wine
There were for Orange, Peach, Pear, Melon and Nectarine
Best of luck to EVERYONE in their wine-making endeavours!
Some good winemaking books for the novice:
This is free and downloadable
http://www.4shared.com/document/XquJUZE6/First_Steps_in_Winemaking.html
And these additional sources: these are my "go-to" books for all things wine.
Amerine and Singleton, "Wine, an introduction for Americans". University of California Press.
"Winemaking Basics" C.S. Ough, DSc, MS (Dr. Ough was a faculty member of the Department of Viticulture and Enology at the University of Califonia at Davis for 41 years.
"The Complete Handbook of Winemaking" - the American Wine Society