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My suggestion to the OP is that instead of coming to a BB and asking such a question, she could research the costs of horse ownership herself. Google, 'cost of horse ownership'.
The other thing I'd suggest, is that you set aside several hours a day, as well as several hundred dollars a month, and pretend this time and money is for your horse. How does that affect your schedule? Your budget? Is it possible to set aside several hundred dollars a month? How about your family? Do they resent you being unavailable for several hours a day? How does it affect your job.
I don't know if you ever saw the activities where teens were given a doll, and played at being parents, but you can do something like that long before you get a horse.
Just set aside some money and some time each day, even simply set your alarm so at 7 am, noon and 5 and 10 pm, you set aside some time and even just notice that this is the time you'd have to be doing barn chores, checking on your horses, riding, or closing your barn for the night.
Just see how it feels to you. See if it fits in your lifestyle.
One friend of mine had her daughter just do some yard work every time the alarm went off. Carry some buckets, dig a hole, what have you.
After a couple days, daughter said, 'Can we board a horse?'
Mom said, 'Yes, if we don't take a family vacation each year, and if you and your brother and sister give up everything they now do, like camp, music lessons, gymnastic classes and we all give up our Friday family night each week.
That gave her daughter pause. But she tried to get the other family members to go along with it.
And you know what?
The family members agreed. She got her horse. But EVERYONE in the family had to give something up so she could. When her brother qualified for the gymnastics nationals, he started to resent the arrangement.
Not every family has to make the same sacrifices, but some sacrifices will have to be made - time, money, other activities, something.
In most families, it's the husband that does the building and the grunt work - he may even wind up cleaning stalls so that his wife even has any time to ride....he may even have to give up that bass boat he's had his eye on, or his hunting vacation with his buddies......
Usually - keeping a horse at home is something that the whole family needs to be on board with, one way or the other.
Who feeds and cleans stalls when Mom is sick, or has broken her ankle? Or has to go out of town for work training?
What do we do when we take our family vacation, if the horses are at home? Horse/house sitter? Boarding stable?
All these things have to be figured out.
The other thing you could very easily do, is hang around an equine veterinary practice. See what sorts of problems people really have with horses. You can also work for a professional horse trainer. Just sweep the aisle of the barn, or something like that. And watch. Take it all in. See what happens day to day.
Don't pick some 'guru' trainer or 'guru' trainer discipline. Just a regular old horse trainer. See what sort of problems people bring to that trainer.
One thing you'll find is that people will describe vastly, vastly different costs of horse ownership.
Some horses are kept in a small pen in a backyard and owners get very angry if anyone suggests that's inadequate(and talk loudly on the internet). Some horse owners have pasture they manage very carefully, and some just put the horse out in a field and assume all will be well. A good many horses don't get exercised regularly, except for walking around a small field, eating grass. Other people feel that's inadequate, and set up a plan where by the longe or ride their horse daily. Some people spend very little time with their horses. Others check them over daily for injuries and health, and then exercise them.
Some of it is about where one lives. In farm country, where land is cheap, there is more room to keep horses, and less expense. On the other hand, in the suburbs, or near subdivisions, keeping horses becomes very complicated and difficult. Manure must be collected and disposed of as the local laws allow. It will require a lot of work to keep a horse property acceptable to neighbors. It will be awfully difficult to have a space where one can ride the horse.
Unfortunately, many new horse owners find out that it really isn't all that easy to just buy a horse and expect it to behave and be ride-able without themselves getting a lot of training, instruction and experience. As a result you'll see that horsey bulletin boards are chock full of threads with topics like 'My horse ran back to the barn and I fell off, what can I do?' and 'My horse won't turn, what is wrong?' or 'I can't ride my horse away from the stable, what should I do?'.
Many are surprised to find out that most horses don't behave very well if they ride once a week, once a month, or don't ride except in summer. Many are even more surprised to see that horse dealers with crazy, difficult and unhealthy horses seem to be drawn to them like a magnet.
New horse owners tend to extremely under-estimate, the amount of experience, instruction and practice they need before they get a horse.
Many 'jump in' - they get a feeling they want a horse, and they get really, really impatient with anyone who starts to tell them what's involved. Get riding lessons? Those are for children! Go to veterinary seminars? What for? My grandfather had draft horses at the farm, and never went to a veterinary seminar! In other words, what ever sort of preparation steps anyone suggests, they find a reason they don't need to do that.
Probably the most difficult thing to get a feel for, is the amount of time it takes to own a horse. If you keep your horse at home, you'll find that you can expect to spend an average of several HOURS a day, caring for, exercising and procuring hay, bedding and concentrates for your horse.
You will find that there's a very wide range of costs - and you'll begin to see that some of those 'really cheap' arrangements aren't really recommended by experienced horse people or veterinarians.
Purchase some books on horse care and horse keeping. Cherry Hill has an incredible book with a title something like 'Keeping horses on small acreage'. There are many books on the subject, though.
Further, try going to some veterinary seminars - they're offered free at feed stores all over the USA. They teach potential owners how to care for horses.
So, take riding lessons. You'll learn a great deal on how to care for and handle horses.
Don't wait for people to tell you. Learn yourself.
As noted, these questions almost always involve a certain amount of - tension.
Why?
Well, it's pretty simple.
On the one hand, you have the person asking, who doesn't realize how very ominous the question: 'how much can it really cost to keep a horse'....really sounds to a horse person.
Why does it sound ominous to a horse person? Why do you find horse people reacting to you in a way you don't like?
One possibility is that you simply want to get a horse, can't really afford it, and it irritates you to be told what it really costs.
Most people buy a horse with the best intentions of taking care of it.
But taking care of any species of animal, involves a pretty serious learning curve.
This is something horse people see every single time we go a good many places where horses are kept:
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=star...start=0&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:1,s:0&tx=66&ty=54
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=star...t=0&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:2,s:0&biw=762&bih=335
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=star...t=0&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:2,s:0&biw=762&bih=335
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=star...start=8&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:7,s:8&tx=75&ty=66
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=star...art=38&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:3,s:38&tx=83&ty=31
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=star...38&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:6,s:38&biw=762&bih=335
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=star...86&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:0,s:86&biw=762&bih=335
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=star...art=94&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:6,s:94&tx=48&ty=27
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=foun...art=14&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:3,s:14&tx=68&ty=60
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=foun...art=79&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:5,s:79&tx=49&ty=74
obese pony with chronically foundered hooves:
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=foun...rt=87&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:6,s:87&tx=106&ty=54
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=foun...6&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:6,s:136&biw=762&bih=335
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=foun...t=201&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:3,s:201&tx=60&ty=40
"killing with kindness" - obese foundered pony:
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=foun...6&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:2,s:266&biw=762&bih=335
foundered hoof, ground level view:
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=foun...=290&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:6,s:290&tx=100&ty=56
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=foun...t=429&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:1,s:429&tx=66&ty=73
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=foun...7&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:2,s:437&biw=762&bih=335
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=foun...1&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:2,s:461&biw=762&bih=335
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=foun...t=600&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:2,s:600&tx=81&ty=18
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=over...start=0&ndsp=6&ved=1t:429,r:4,s:0&tx=95&ty=60
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=over...tart=0&ndsp=6&ved=1t:429,r:3,s:0&tx=108&ty=27
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=over...0&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:0,s:110&biw=762&bih=335
http://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl...ge=25&ndsp=9&ved=1t:429,r:7,s:190&tx=59&ty=56
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=fenc...start=0&ndsp=6&ved=1t:429,r:2,s:0&tx=32&ty=25
"Don't they just heal by themselves?"
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=fenc...t=0&ndsp=6&ved=1t:429,r:5,s:0&biw=762&bih=335
The other thing I'd suggest, is that you set aside several hours a day, as well as several hundred dollars a month, and pretend this time and money is for your horse. How does that affect your schedule? Your budget? Is it possible to set aside several hundred dollars a month? How about your family? Do they resent you being unavailable for several hours a day? How does it affect your job.
I don't know if you ever saw the activities where teens were given a doll, and played at being parents, but you can do something like that long before you get a horse.
Just set aside some money and some time each day, even simply set your alarm so at 7 am, noon and 5 and 10 pm, you set aside some time and even just notice that this is the time you'd have to be doing barn chores, checking on your horses, riding, or closing your barn for the night.
Just see how it feels to you. See if it fits in your lifestyle.
One friend of mine had her daughter just do some yard work every time the alarm went off. Carry some buckets, dig a hole, what have you.
After a couple days, daughter said, 'Can we board a horse?'
Mom said, 'Yes, if we don't take a family vacation each year, and if you and your brother and sister give up everything they now do, like camp, music lessons, gymnastic classes and we all give up our Friday family night each week.
That gave her daughter pause. But she tried to get the other family members to go along with it.
And you know what?
The family members agreed. She got her horse. But EVERYONE in the family had to give something up so she could. When her brother qualified for the gymnastics nationals, he started to resent the arrangement.
Not every family has to make the same sacrifices, but some sacrifices will have to be made - time, money, other activities, something.
In most families, it's the husband that does the building and the grunt work - he may even wind up cleaning stalls so that his wife even has any time to ride....he may even have to give up that bass boat he's had his eye on, or his hunting vacation with his buddies......
Usually - keeping a horse at home is something that the whole family needs to be on board with, one way or the other.
Who feeds and cleans stalls when Mom is sick, or has broken her ankle? Or has to go out of town for work training?
What do we do when we take our family vacation, if the horses are at home? Horse/house sitter? Boarding stable?
All these things have to be figured out.
The other thing you could very easily do, is hang around an equine veterinary practice. See what sorts of problems people really have with horses. You can also work for a professional horse trainer. Just sweep the aisle of the barn, or something like that. And watch. Take it all in. See what happens day to day.
Don't pick some 'guru' trainer or 'guru' trainer discipline. Just a regular old horse trainer. See what sort of problems people bring to that trainer.
One thing you'll find is that people will describe vastly, vastly different costs of horse ownership.
Some horses are kept in a small pen in a backyard and owners get very angry if anyone suggests that's inadequate(and talk loudly on the internet). Some horse owners have pasture they manage very carefully, and some just put the horse out in a field and assume all will be well. A good many horses don't get exercised regularly, except for walking around a small field, eating grass. Other people feel that's inadequate, and set up a plan where by the longe or ride their horse daily. Some people spend very little time with their horses. Others check them over daily for injuries and health, and then exercise them.
Some of it is about where one lives. In farm country, where land is cheap, there is more room to keep horses, and less expense. On the other hand, in the suburbs, or near subdivisions, keeping horses becomes very complicated and difficult. Manure must be collected and disposed of as the local laws allow. It will require a lot of work to keep a horse property acceptable to neighbors. It will be awfully difficult to have a space where one can ride the horse.
Unfortunately, many new horse owners find out that it really isn't all that easy to just buy a horse and expect it to behave and be ride-able without themselves getting a lot of training, instruction and experience. As a result you'll see that horsey bulletin boards are chock full of threads with topics like 'My horse ran back to the barn and I fell off, what can I do?' and 'My horse won't turn, what is wrong?' or 'I can't ride my horse away from the stable, what should I do?'.
Many are surprised to find out that most horses don't behave very well if they ride once a week, once a month, or don't ride except in summer. Many are even more surprised to see that horse dealers with crazy, difficult and unhealthy horses seem to be drawn to them like a magnet.
New horse owners tend to extremely under-estimate, the amount of experience, instruction and practice they need before they get a horse.
Many 'jump in' - they get a feeling they want a horse, and they get really, really impatient with anyone who starts to tell them what's involved. Get riding lessons? Those are for children! Go to veterinary seminars? What for? My grandfather had draft horses at the farm, and never went to a veterinary seminar! In other words, what ever sort of preparation steps anyone suggests, they find a reason they don't need to do that.
Probably the most difficult thing to get a feel for, is the amount of time it takes to own a horse. If you keep your horse at home, you'll find that you can expect to spend an average of several HOURS a day, caring for, exercising and procuring hay, bedding and concentrates for your horse.
You will find that there's a very wide range of costs - and you'll begin to see that some of those 'really cheap' arrangements aren't really recommended by experienced horse people or veterinarians.
Purchase some books on horse care and horse keeping. Cherry Hill has an incredible book with a title something like 'Keeping horses on small acreage'. There are many books on the subject, though.
Further, try going to some veterinary seminars - they're offered free at feed stores all over the USA. They teach potential owners how to care for horses.
So, take riding lessons. You'll learn a great deal on how to care for and handle horses.
Don't wait for people to tell you. Learn yourself.
As noted, these questions almost always involve a certain amount of - tension.
Why?
Well, it's pretty simple.
On the one hand, you have the person asking, who doesn't realize how very ominous the question: 'how much can it really cost to keep a horse'....really sounds to a horse person.
Why does it sound ominous to a horse person? Why do you find horse people reacting to you in a way you don't like?
One possibility is that you simply want to get a horse, can't really afford it, and it irritates you to be told what it really costs.
Most people buy a horse with the best intentions of taking care of it.
But taking care of any species of animal, involves a pretty serious learning curve.
This is something horse people see every single time we go a good many places where horses are kept:
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=star...start=0&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:1,s:0&tx=66&ty=54
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=star...t=0&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:2,s:0&biw=762&bih=335
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=star...t=0&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:2,s:0&biw=762&bih=335
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=star...start=8&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:7,s:8&tx=75&ty=66
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=star...art=38&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:3,s:38&tx=83&ty=31
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=star...38&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:6,s:38&biw=762&bih=335
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=star...86&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:0,s:86&biw=762&bih=335
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=star...art=94&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:6,s:94&tx=48&ty=27
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=foun...art=14&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:3,s:14&tx=68&ty=60
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=foun...art=79&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:5,s:79&tx=49&ty=74
obese pony with chronically foundered hooves:
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=foun...rt=87&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:6,s:87&tx=106&ty=54
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=foun...6&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:6,s:136&biw=762&bih=335
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=foun...t=201&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:3,s:201&tx=60&ty=40
"killing with kindness" - obese foundered pony:
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=foun...6&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:2,s:266&biw=762&bih=335
foundered hoof, ground level view:
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=foun...=290&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:6,s:290&tx=100&ty=56
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=foun...t=429&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:1,s:429&tx=66&ty=73
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=foun...7&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:2,s:437&biw=762&bih=335
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=foun...1&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:2,s:461&biw=762&bih=335
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=foun...t=600&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:2,s:600&tx=81&ty=18
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=over...start=0&ndsp=6&ved=1t:429,r:4,s:0&tx=95&ty=60
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=over...tart=0&ndsp=6&ved=1t:429,r:3,s:0&tx=108&ty=27
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=over...0&ndsp=8&ved=1t:429,r:0,s:110&biw=762&bih=335
http://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl...ge=25&ndsp=9&ved=1t:429,r:7,s:190&tx=59&ty=56
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=fenc...start=0&ndsp=6&ved=1t:429,r:2,s:0&tx=32&ty=25
"Don't they just heal by themselves?"
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=fenc...t=0&ndsp=6&ved=1t:429,r:5,s:0&biw=762&bih=335
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