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- Nov 10, 2012
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I was born into a horse family, so I never had to prove anything to get my first horse. However, my social life as a teenager was dependent on my performance at home caring for my horses... If my horse's stall was not cleaned, feed set up for the evening, and horse was turned out and spotless by 6:30am every morning, then I was going to be sitting at home that evening and not be out with my friends. Even though my parents were more than capable to fully care for my horse, they made me be 100% responsible, so all they had to do if I was gone for an evening was to lead the horses in from the pasture to their stalls in the barn. Those "chores" sometimes seemed like a burden when I was 16, but I consider them priceless now.
I would say, Chicken Gal, if you want to show your parents that you are responsible and capable of caring for/owning a horse, that you might look for a local therapeutic riding center, or possibly a normal lesson barn. Many times, those facilities welcome volunteers and are willing to teach them the basics of caring for horses. You will likely start out doing the "grunt work" and NOT working independently with the horses, but that type of work is what you HAVE to do to own a horse. Some facilities, if they are non-profit or not-for-profit, will track and record your hours as a "volunteer". That record can be shown to your parents so they know you are ready.
I have seen kids at my current facility work their way up, and their parents have leased and/or bought horses for them because of the dedication they have shown as a volunteer.
Thanks! I am going to my lesson tomorrow so I will ask my parents if I could volunteer then ask my instructor. I can also go to my neighbor with some horses. Thanks!