How to Ask my Parents to move out?!

[whtdragn]

I have to say it is difficult for people with family, sometimes. I grew up with my grandparents. My mother and father were not in the picture to any extent. I tried living with my mom in my early 20 but it lasted only a few weeks.

I know it is hard but you have to do what makes you happy and what keeps you sane. I spoke with a friend from way back a few weeks ago and we talked about her divorce. She was talking about how she was not happy and she expected him to make her happy.

She finally realized that no one could make her happy. She had to work that out on her own.

Best of Luck.

 

[inTheSameBoat]

i am in the same boat and this is the second time i have been in it. My fourteen year old son and i have only had 7 years alone. They have manipulated themselves back by making me feel sorry for them. I hate it, she controls everything. criticizes over everything. i only work and sleep and pay all the bills. she is living the life i want. they are making me crazy. How do you kick them out on the street?

 

[nayeli]

i am in the same boat and this is the second time i have been in it. My fourteen year old son and i have only had 7 years alone. They have manipulated themselves back by making me feel sorry for them. I hate it, she controls everything. criticizes over everything. i only work and sleep and pay all the bills. she is living the life i want. they are making me crazy. How do you kick them out on the street?

I would be honest! Tell her that she is always criticizing you and not contributing and that its time for her to leave! If someone is negatively affecting you and your son AND mooching off of you then they have to go!

 

[lilygessert]

Wow thanks for your reply to this post you are very insightful.

 

[lilygessert]

I am in the same boat as well. My Mom has delusional disorder rare mental problem that makes her think people ( ie. our landlord ) are trying to kill her or mess with her steal her stuff etc.
I currently don't have a way out I don't want to relay my sad story because this is not about me. I also am sad to hear you have to deal with kids and more than one person there doing stuff to you. You sound really nice and I am nice too and nice people get walked on. I learned to do meditation and i will tell you it has been life changing for me. I would be so full of rage at times I literally wanted to kill my Mom. But now I see I can change how I feel and when I change that people respond to me differently. We cannot control the exterior of life but we can change the interior. I wish you both the best.
PS I am super sorry to hear about your daughter

 

[lilygessert]

This doesn't help when a person has a mental disorder this doesn't bother them at all to be "OUTED" they look at you lie you are a piece of trash on the rug and continue to do what they want. They have a high amount of I DESERVE TO BE TAKEN CARE OF going on in their minds. Aging is hard so they take it out on the ones they are supposed to love

 

[lilygessert]

Quote: This is helpful to me thank you -- I am sorry to hear you had to lose your animals. You are right we never really know what people are capable of doing when circumstances present themselves. And this means both ways for the good as well. Have hope not all people are broken deep down inside.