The two cockerels I’m trying to “raise” right are a little rough with the girls and a bit unconventional, to say the least. I’m not sure when to say, “Okay, that’s enough!” I guess they’re trying to establish their ‘whatever’, but at the expense of my girls. When is enough? When blood is drawn? What about the emotional factor affecting the hens? I don’t want them to stop laying.Another thought occurs. I recently dispatched a beautiful Isbar rooster for an entirely different reason. He was fine with me. Not aggressive at all. He'd dance at me a little, but I'd just tell him I wasn't into him and he'd back off.
My issue with him was that he would NOT leave my Bantam hens alone, and he was really rough on the standard hens as well and ended up injuring one of them. The hen he injured was terrified of him. The Bantams were terrorized. I picked him up and carted him around a lot. Again, he was fine with me. He was a good rooster in many other ways, but I couldn't tolerate him mistreating and damaging my layer hens. They seem much more at ease without him around.
He died well, and tasted delicious.
I have seen both boys have ahold of the hen’s feathers, at the same time, each trying to snag the win. Then there was the time when the more dominant cockerel knocked the lesser one off a hen and then climbed on himself (this scenario plays out all the time), only this particular time the lesser male then climbed on top of the dom. Hen/Roo/Roo!
What?!?

I do have three hens that WILL NOT let either of the cockerels mate with them. Generally the boys always run from them, for their own safety, but if they do happen to sneak up on one and actually mount her, all three of these girls will put up a fight and dump the cockerel off...and then the brutal chase begins. Those are quite hilarious.
I hate it for the girl when they wind up chasing a her all over the yard. I do draw the line and stop any kind of aggressive behavior toward my older girls. My two BO’s are pretty good at holding their own, but my little Red Star winds up just hiding all day. When I’m outside and see it, I stop it. It breaks my heart.
I’m trying really hard to stand back and let nature take its course. I just hope nature doesn’t ruin my girls.