You can go many different ways with a rooster. OP didn't specify in her post which way she wanted to take her flock, so I don't think any way here is wrong in the context of the thread.
Personally, I would agree with Havoc. There's a difference between a scared bird and a respectful one. Birds can also be flighty without being afraid, and lots of people mix the two definitions up.
I don't want mine to constantly follow me around and sit on my lap, but I want to be able to walk near enough to him to gauge his health without him blowing up.