Me too. there are some folks in my family that I can't see do without, but I never loan them money. On the rare occasion that one would ask, I'd only give it to them if I could afford to not get it back. If I didn't have it to give, I'd just offer to let 'em eat with us or whatever I could do to help, y'know.
If it was someone else? Well, if I wouldn't just give it to them, I darn sure wouldn't loan it to them.
Having said that, I recently "loaned" one of them a couple hundred dollars and got it back pretty quick. (Though not as quick as she said she would.) But whenever she would call to say "I haven't forgotten. I am gonna send you that money back." I always just said, "I know you will send it when you can."
Cassandra
If it was someone else? Well, if I wouldn't just give it to them, I darn sure wouldn't loan it to them.
Having said that, I recently "loaned" one of them a couple hundred dollars and got it back pretty quick. (Though not as quick as she said she would.) But whenever she would call to say "I haven't forgotten. I am gonna send you that money back." I always just said, "I know you will send it when you can."
Cassandra