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If the child was hardly cared for to begin with, where would she have learned the concept of death? If you never learn what death is, why would you be concerned by it?
The volumes of child development studies have been steadily disproven in roughly the past 50 or so years. Children are capable of learning a great deal of things that once were thought to be beyond their mental abilities. No one thought to challenge the minds of children until recently, so no one could really be sure of their ability to comprehend concepts. It has been found that many 'adult' concepts are grasped well by children and that many concepts that adults struggle with very young children have no issue at all dealing with.
I'm sorry but you are wrong. A new study just out shows that even at the age of 21 the brain is still learning to process concepts and govern impulse control.
Still learning does not mean one is incapable of comprehending all concepts. Poor impulse control doesn't mean you don't understand the concept presented, it just means you don't think about the consequences before you act. Children can understand they shouldn't punch someone but react impulsively and do it anyhow. That doesn't mean they don't understand they shouldn't punch people, that just means they can't control their actions fully.
Children as young as 3 can understand that a ball of clay can change it's shape but still be the same mass or that pouring water from a wide container to a tall one doesn't change the volume of water there is. They can figure out patterns and puzzles faster and with less effort than adults can. They can be taught simple concepts and comprehend them fully or at the very least partially if the concept is more complex.
If you teach a 5 year old what death is, in simple terms, they will likely understand what it is. They can understand that you don't hold kittens by the neck because that will kill them. They can understand that Grandpa isn't coming over on Sunday because he has passed away. Give children a little more credit to their intelligence and maybe they won't appear to be so incapable.
But hey, what do I know, I only pursued a minor in psychology out of interest as to how the mind works. It's not like I actually paid attention to anything being taught, what with being under 21 at the time and not being able to grasp concepts and control my impulses.
If the child was hardly cared for to begin with, where would she have learned the concept of death? If you never learn what death is, why would you be concerned by it?
The volumes of child development studies have been steadily disproven in roughly the past 50 or so years. Children are capable of learning a great deal of things that once were thought to be beyond their mental abilities. No one thought to challenge the minds of children until recently, so no one could really be sure of their ability to comprehend concepts. It has been found that many 'adult' concepts are grasped well by children and that many concepts that adults struggle with very young children have no issue at all dealing with.
I'm sorry but you are wrong. A new study just out shows that even at the age of 21 the brain is still learning to process concepts and govern impulse control.
Still learning does not mean one is incapable of comprehending all concepts. Poor impulse control doesn't mean you don't understand the concept presented, it just means you don't think about the consequences before you act. Children can understand they shouldn't punch someone but react impulsively and do it anyhow. That doesn't mean they don't understand they shouldn't punch people, that just means they can't control their actions fully.
Children as young as 3 can understand that a ball of clay can change it's shape but still be the same mass or that pouring water from a wide container to a tall one doesn't change the volume of water there is. They can figure out patterns and puzzles faster and with less effort than adults can. They can be taught simple concepts and comprehend them fully or at the very least partially if the concept is more complex.
If you teach a 5 year old what death is, in simple terms, they will likely understand what it is. They can understand that you don't hold kittens by the neck because that will kill them. They can understand that Grandpa isn't coming over on Sunday because he has passed away. Give children a little more credit to their intelligence and maybe they won't appear to be so incapable.
But hey, what do I know, I only pursued a minor in psychology out of interest as to how the mind works. It's not like I actually paid attention to anything being taught, what with being under 21 at the time and not being able to grasp concepts and control my impulses.