Hubby is not doing well. long post

[lurky]

I am so sorry for what you are going through. Dont beat yourself up, you did exactly what needed to be done. You are totally amazing to have made it this far. Kids are alot stronger than we give them credit for sometimes. Maybe god blessed you with your children to help give you the strength you need right now. Dont give up.....they need you as much as you need them right now. find the strength through them to rise back up

 

[arlee453]

Oh, Ally - so sorry to hear that Davy is not improving. It's so hard to stay strong in such days, I know - You NEED to let your emtions out and it's just fine to do your 'losing it' in private and then compose yourself and be strong for your children.

We are all praying and pulling for you in these dark and difficult days.

:aww

 

[pattycake]

Oh, Alley, I wish there was some way we could help you through this.

It must seem impossible but you do need to take care of yourself, however you can.

 

[OHChick]

oh alley, i don't even know what to say.

i log on throughout the day to check up on your situation, this is the most heartbreaking thing i've read in a long time.

please don't blame yourself, you did everything right.

i think its fair to say EVERYONE @ BYC is praying for you and Davy and your family.

i hope you can feel our strength and prayers out there in Colorado.

 

[wegotchickens]

Alley, no matter what Davy will never truly be gone. So don't lose faith. And TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF!
Those kids need you to be strong, and that means eating and sleeping as well as praying, and venting to your chicken family. We're here for you as best we can be.

 

[a2ms4chickens]

Alley-

Don't give up, yet.

You need to rely on your strength to get through this for your children.

You did what you thought was best for Davy in getting him to the hospital. You have nothing to feel guilty about.

I am still praying for a miracle for Davy

 

[BantyChickMom]

Alley,

I am so sorry for you and what you're having to deal with.
Your emotions (regret, fear, anger) are all normal.
I really don't know what else to say to you, as everything has already been said and I know there's nothing that any of us can say or do that will really bring you the comfort that you are craving right now.

Just know that we are here for you and praying for you and Davy now more than ever.

 

[texaschickmama]

Alley, don't give up hope, ever. You keep the faith, you be strong for your hubby and those kiddos. I know it is easy for me to say from the outside looking in and not really going through this, but you have to keep the faith. As much as we always want to believe we are in control, we never are. God is in control of everything. Like Prissy said, Be still and know that I am God. PSALMS 46:10 You have to cling to your faith now more than ever. God will never punish you, sweetie, he loves you more than ever, just know that. What you are feeling is normal, being mad at the world including your hubby and God. Let that go, don't waste your precious energy on that. Use your strength, dig deep inside you, I know it is there, have faith. You know all of our life stories are already written by God's hand, if this is your hubbies time, God already knows this and is here for you to confide in. Please don't beat yourself up over this, you did what every loving wife would have, you did your absolute best. You hang in there and you are going to make it through this. You have to for your kids. They need you now more than ever. I pray that you have a good spiritual leader to confide in. If you don't talk to someone at the hospital about getting one. You have to have someone to talk this through with, they can help you. I am praying for you and your precious family. Hang in there kiddo, we are here.

 

[Patchofheaven]

Alley,

I'm so sorry that Davy is not doing well. I feel so bad and I wish that I could reach through this computer and console you right now. You are so tougher than you think, if it were me I don't know that I could be as strong as you have been through this ordeal.

I told my husband last night about your Davy and your hand, then I told him I loved him, hugged him hard and gave him a kiss. Thank you for sharing your life with us and making us realize how precious our loved ones are.

We are both still praying for your family,
Dana and Richard

 

[Kristina]

Alley,
I'm so sorry about Davy. I can't even imagine what you are going through. I haven't posted on here becasue I really don't think I have words that can comfort you through this. But I just wanted to let you know that you have another person praying for you both. I pray for Davy's recovery and your strength through all of this

Kristina