I dont know why; but the last couple weeks..I have been so irritated at things hubby does... we are supposed to leave on thursday morning and will be gone until Saturday late afternoon...we are going to ICHE (IL Christian Home Educators Conference)..we will be in conferences on Friday and saturday day; but thursday day/eve, friday eve will be for us to be alone together...no kiddos... I feel he is snapping at me for NO reasons at all..and he hung the phone up on me the other day ..after we argued while he was at work about how he talked to me on the phone...I'm like if I cant vent my frustrations about something/someone to YOU, who can I?? Then he said I could but I'm critical of ppl..I said I was just VENTING..thats all..please dont yell at me..so then he said stuff like you think I'm yelling? THIS IS YELLING!! and then I said ok and didnt say anything whille he continued to crab at me for being "critical"...so then he was mad at me for not talking to him; so then he said ok and griped a few things and then hung up on me... I'm not sure whats going on; but he hasnt touched me, he hasnt kissed me, he hasnt made ANY advances to me such as hand holding, kiss, hug etc.. I know he's not cheating; thats not even an option..I'm just not sure whats going on... I dont know if he's stressed or what? I'm a very sensitive person and if I talk to him about how I feel and what I feel is going on, he gets critical again or says I'm reading too much into it..well..you know I cant help how I feel right? So we end up arguing about it ... We had been doing sooo good and were soo much better lately..now i feellike we are going backwards... anyway; I had plans to go to town to get some stuff for our trip..butnow i dont even want to go ANYWHERE with him... just this a/m I woke up and said ok this will be ag reat day today...I have faith; 20 minutes later we were in the car taking it to the shop; apparently he was listening to something on the radio and I said "Can you deal witht he carpet guy today? I'm not..." then he said "Thanks for talking, I was trying to hear when the storms were going to be here".. WTH?? I DONT WANT TO GO ANYWHERE WITH HIM..and I know he'll wanna be intimate due to being away from the kids...well FORGET IT BABY..NOT HAPPENING!!! I'm soooo upset and irritated w/him I have no clue why he doesnt understand me in the last couple weeks..Its not like I have changed into a different person!!!