lol my dw has a whole different approach, she tricks me, makes me feel guilty for have the ability to say no (like it would really matter anyway). we have 3 dogs now they are all inside dogs, because well you know dogs aren't meant to be outside when its below 60 degrees and small dogs aren't supposed to walk on their own (she carries him every where) well, she was crying one day when I came home at least I think she was crying) so I put my arms around her and said whats wrong honey, that's when she dropped the bomb on me, she said her son was moving in with his girlfriend and he couldn't keep his "dog" now they call this animal a dog, he weighs over 200 pounds, his name is Hannibal. I was still holding her and thinking can I kick myself while involved in this embrace without her noticing and I think I heard her say muhahahahahahahahahah, I was trapped she sets me up like that all the time, I thought I was the boss, but I am figuring out she has just let me think that for years while all the time she has been silently ruling the world, I don't have a chance around here. Oh and bye the way Hannibal can sit on the couch with all four feet on the floor. Am I whipped or just clueless?