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I agree, and redhen's 100% correct. I've had CPS called on me, I've had former kids tell the school we have no food in the house, that I drink all day long, they are forced to do hard work etc..
Fortunately, by the time I get these kids many of the already have a reputation for their inventiveness in creative fiction.
No food in the house..... Like Mrs. Glassman, I have 2 fridges and 2 freezers..... false - first team gone
Drank All Day Long - Fine, give me a blood test, that's more accurate and if in fact I had been drinking all day previous or the day they showed up ....... well they declined, laughed it off - False - 2nd team gone.
Forced to do hard work? I have a large garden. The hardest thing they do are helping with the weeding, picking, and the boys here generally help with the mowing and weed wacking around the property. I run the splitter, chainsaws etc. Did they mean chores? I took them inside to see how the chore chart was split up - false third team gone.............
I'm sure there's more but that's what I've had in the last year. It gets to the point where most of them know me and end up telling the kids they are lucky to be in a foster home and not a residential home -
I grew up in a foster home and wasn't the best of kids. I was a violent kid growing up, mad and angry at the world. I was sent to boot camp when I was 15-16. Would this be a good reality check for her?
I agree, and redhen's 100% correct. I've had CPS called on me, I've had former kids tell the school we have no food in the house, that I drink all day long, they are forced to do hard work etc..
Fortunately, by the time I get these kids many of the already have a reputation for their inventiveness in creative fiction.
No food in the house..... Like Mrs. Glassman, I have 2 fridges and 2 freezers..... false - first team gone
Drank All Day Long - Fine, give me a blood test, that's more accurate and if in fact I had been drinking all day previous or the day they showed up ....... well they declined, laughed it off - False - 2nd team gone.
Forced to do hard work? I have a large garden. The hardest thing they do are helping with the weeding, picking, and the boys here generally help with the mowing and weed wacking around the property. I run the splitter, chainsaws etc. Did they mean chores? I took them inside to see how the chore chart was split up - false third team gone.............
I'm sure there's more but that's what I've had in the last year. It gets to the point where most of them know me and end up telling the kids they are lucky to be in a foster home and not a residential home -
I grew up in a foster home and wasn't the best of kids. I was a violent kid growing up, mad and angry at the world. I was sent to boot camp when I was 15-16. Would this be a good reality check for her?